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Athena!!!

why can’t she stay out of controversies for more than 10 minutes </3 lmfao they’re getting worse each time

“you should always trust me no matter what, and it hurts me that you won’t ever just take my word for these things” - whenever i saw him with dating apps or hiding conversations with other women

“that never happened/i never said that/you’re remembering things wrong”

“youre just so sensitive, i feel like we (his narc mom and him) can never joke around you”

“you make everything about yourself, why don’t my feelings matter?” — whenever i brought up something he did that hurt me, he bottled up all of his thoughts about everything unless i was upset, and suddenly he needed a therapy session

there’s just so much

dude mine even got his mother to feel this way towards me, it messed with me for so long

what a loser

this is the cutest thing ever

me when i have a migraine

i’m having the same issue rn, it’s exhausting. i agree with all the comments about working out and being more active to tire yourself out more during the day, but i haven’t been able to get the energy to try that out myself unfortunately. what helps me is playing youtube videos or a show on my TV when im falling asleep so i have someone else talking to fill the void in my brain and distract me from thinking of him as much. i also try to force myself to stay off of my phone after 10 or 11, since that usually makes things worse.

you aren’t alone, and things will get better with time. it’s so hard, i know, but don’t lose hope. sending you love and healing <3

i’d still suggest more research, guppies are a warm water fish and keeping them in cold water can be stressful for them. plus, they can very easily pose a choking hazard due to their size. not sure about your breeder but generally i don’t see this advised

i’d suggest checking out this thread if you’d like.

wasn’t trying to push any buttons abt the worm thing, i just saw in your post that you wanted to avoid them altogether if possible.

congrats on ur future buddy!

i don’t recommend feeding fish, you should probably do some more research about their dietary requirements — worms are typically a non-negotiable. and i agree with what the other person said about researching the cycling process.

other than that, the design of your tank looks beautiful! just make sure to feel around for any surfaces that are even slightly sharp or rough, axolotls have very delicate skin that can get injured easily.

best of luck! :)

thank you! :)

alsjsksjs thank you lol

awh thank you <3

thank you <3

aww thank you :P

hehe well thank you :)

mine always spent a bunch of unnecessary money on meals and stuffed animals that i didn’t ask for, and then would say he “always did so much for me” whenever i called him out on his bad behavior. he was always bragging to his mom about what he bought me, and he would never let me pay for anything. he made it look like it was out of chivalry, but i realized later on that it was just so he could hold it over my head.

he also constantly tried getting me to quit my job so he could give me money instead, claiming that i was too unhappy there and he could do better for me. he almost convinced me… i’m so glad i never went through with it.

it wasn’t just limited to me either, he spent thousands on concert tickets for his mom and grandfather and would tell everyone who would listen about the great thing he did for them. i’m convinced his biggest reason for doing it was to brag about it.

In other words, yes, they try to buy our love and spend lots of money to make themselves look better and inflate their egos.