How To Talk To Your Crush In Class at School

The Josh Speaks
6 min readSep 20, 2019
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Do you and your crush share a class together and you have absolutely no clue how to start a conversation with them? Do you do it during class? After class? What do you talk to them about?

Now that you’re back in school you’re probably seeing your crush every single day and that urge to talk to them, to make something happen is growing. Which is why I think it’s so important to have that conversation with them, to at least start having some type of interaction with them in the very very beginning of the school year because the longer you wait to talk to them, if you wait days and weeks and months, eventually that sinking feeling is going to creep in, that one that’s telling you ahh it’s too late, you missed your chance, don’t do it. So because time is of the essence, what I want you to do is this: Commit to talking to your crush the next time you see them. I know, it’s a scary thought but it’s something I want you to do. If your crush is in your class there are three key moments to talk to them so let’s walk through each one.

The first one is talking to them before class begins. This is when everyone is coming into the classroom, everyone is starting to get settled. People are talking to each other and interacting because the teacher hasn’t kinda started teaching yet so you have that opportunity to have a very brief and small conversation with your crush. You don’t have to have this super long outdrawn intense and romantic conversation with your crush at the start.

Sometimes the best conversations are short and quick and about something very simple.

So let’s say you walk into class and see your crush sitting there by themselves just kinda hanging out waiting for class to begin. You might wanna have a small brief conversation with them that might go something like this. Hey before class begins I wanna get your opinion on something, me and my friends were having a debate and I want to know what your perspective is on this thing, XYZ, fill in that XYZ for yourself.

Remember that initial conversation is going to be brief because there’s a lot going on at the beginning of class. So even if you get to talk to them for a minute at most, that’s totally fine. The whole purpose is to really break the…

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The Josh Speaks

Josh is an inspirational speaker, YouTuber, and author of the self-help book “Embracing The Awkward” for teens and young adults. https://thejoshspeaks.com