How I see life

By Michael Agarkov (a.k.a. Midex)

29 September 2023

Everyone sees life differently in this world. Everyone has their own meaning for it, their own hopes and dreams. So I decided to write out my own. Life is a complicated thing, right? Well, I think it’s complicated because we make it so. It can be as simple as, well, living. Earning money, then coming home, sitting at the balcony, enjoying food, talking to others, looking at the stars and the moon outside. But many people over-complicate it for themselves, and sometimes for everyone as well. As a highly-sensitive person, I just want to enjoy life, look at the simple things in this world and enjoy them. But humanity keeps making mistakes some thought it already learned, and we have horrible things, like injustice in the legal system, terrorism, war… It’s all scary, but some people who I would call insane want it to happen. They force those who just want to enjoy life and not hurt anyone to go through horrible things. I am a softhearted pacifist, and I believe that war is a crime against humanity. Think of the peaceful people who are just enjoying life that are affected by it. They don’t deserve it. Nobody deserves it, yet reality is evil sometimes. Those insane people seem to not think about that at all, or they are just absolutely evil. Then, there is abuse, physical and mental. Some people are born with parents that don’t love them, and worse, hate them. They force them to be sorry for minor mistakes, force them to think that they are always right, manipulate them, tell them not to cry and other horrible things. Because of parents like these some people can become insane, start hating everyone in this world, because they were treated unfairly. I can confidently say that many people in this world just need someone to comfort them, give them a hug and help them. And then, there is capitalism. It’s evil, because some people are very poor to the point where they can’t get enough money for food, for a shelter, for a comfortable life. These poor people don’t deserve that either, yet many just don’t pay attention to that. Something has to be done to help them. This world is also not perfect because it forces everyone to be perfect. I want life to be fair and enjoyable for everyone. I see life as a beautiful thing that was ruined by insanity, and many want to commit suicide because of that. Don’t do that. You will remove all chances of it getting better. It will soon pass, whatever it is.

I would also like to address the problem with how people judge others. Everyone is forcing others to be perfect, not make mistakes, be on time, be “normal”. Nobody is perfect, and it’s absolutely normal. Making mistakes is part of learning, and the way people treat others for them is, in my opinion, disgusting. What if someone was late because of something they were going through? Many people treat others badly because of something bad happening in their life. Instead of answering with aggression I think it’s best to ask if there’s everything is okay, and give them the comfort they need. You never know what someone is going through. And because many are insane or simply don’t understand that, many people feel like their life is falling apart. I believe that kindness, care and help are the solution to that. More people need to understand that. And another thing, everyone, especially on the internet, tend to force their subjective opinions on others. There is no correct opinion out there, everyone has their own, and that’s okay. Please don’t make the same mistake, and respect all normal subjective opinions, and when expressing your own one, remind everyone that it’s your subjective opinion, it may vary from other opinions, and there is no “correct” answer.

Many people in this world has many moral flaws, and it’s best to be positive and help them realize that they aren’t correct without starting an argument. Speaking about arguments, if you can’t avoid one, it’s best to try and understand others perspective on it, and try to find a compromise, instead of heating it. If the other person starts shouting, don’t do the same, because of the reason I mentioned earlier.

Please don’t forget, the most important part of life is enjoying it. Don’t let others ruin it for you. You don’t have to be flawless to be deserving of love. Just be yourself. Don’t try to be perfect, because that will only hurt you. In this world where you can be anything, be kind, and don’t forget to be happy.

I wish everyone was as kind as I am. This world really needs kindness, love and respect right now.

Best wishes to everyone in this world.

-Michael Agarkov