What's next, people don't have sympathy for male murder victims? Or female rape victims? Or African-American kidnap victims? Or homosexual terrorism victims? Or transgender arson victims? Or senior citizen burglary victims? It's all the same, it's all bad regardless of who it happens to. People are people. Don't bunch them into categories or judge them by labels, based on society's expectations or so-called "social norms". Everybody matters, we are individuals, not labels. Men don't have to big and strong any more than women don't have to physically beautiful or feminine.