Support for those with nasty, cruel, toxic, abusive MILs & moms

• Our Official Song

• Shit to Know (Policies/Rules/Etc)

• MILimination Tactics

• How to Handle PMs from Fuckheads

• JNM Book List

CRISIS RESOURCES

• US

• UK

• Australia

• Canada

SIMILAR COMMUNITIES
r/JustNoSO (our sister sub)
r/toxicfamilyislam (unaffiliated)

It's easier to dump a mama's boy than to divorce a mama's boy, and both of those are easier than trying to change a mama's boy. ~/u/pastelegg

Abusers are the angler fish of humanity - they dangle a bright glowing ball of love in front of you so you don't see the teeth in the dark. ~/u/silentgreen85

Next time they say, "That's just how she is," reply, "And this is how I am. Are you putting in as much effort trying to change who she is as you are trying to change who I am?" ~/u/Gamez2Go

When you're wearing rose colored glasses, red flags just look like flags. ~/u/jnmlthrow

You’re wishin’ too much, baby. You gotta stop wearing your wishbone where your backbone oughtta be. ~Elizabeth Gilbert, Eat, Pray, Love

A gift is not an apology – it is a reward for accepting shitty behaviour. ~/u/particularshadeofblu

Sometimes the parent you wish you had isn’t the parent you do have. ~/u/TwoshittyMILs

The lightning rod isn’t the source of the electricity. You’re not the cause of the shit flung your way. You’re just (unluckily) the target. ~/u/onthestickagain

When nothing is ever good enough, nothing it is. ~/u/flora_pompeii

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