-divide by 2 to get MEN

-divide by 2 again to get English-speakers, unless you’re fluent in Spanish

–divide by maybe 2 again to get ones in your rough age band…you don’t want to be a Cougar, do you?

-divide by maybe 5 to get ones that are a physical type that turns you on

-divide some other number to get ones that are smart enough..pretty intelligent group of babes here, so for all of you, probably need to divide by at least another 5

-apply other divisors for personality type, religion (if that’s a factor), etc etc etc

 

The number remaining will be a lot less impressive than 528 million. And most of them, you’ll never meet, and of those you DO meet, in a lot of cases the chemistry won’t be there even though they fit your checklist.

 

So there’s not just ONE…but the number who you’ll find sexually attractive AND that you can fall in love with AND would make good husbands from a practical standpoint AND you’ll actually meet…is probably a fairly small number.

 

 

Bhetti PERMALINK*

November 20, 2009 4:11 pm

Isn’t that the problem, Iconoclast, that a woman holds out so long for the ‘soulmate’ feeling that she’ll not have the appropriate set of attitudes and expectations that will make it work with the chances she does get with men actually compatible with her? That she blames it on not finding the Right Man instead of her own internal processes? How can she expect Mr. Right if she’s Mrs. Wrong?