Lloyd deMause's theory regarding the evolution of modes of parenting (psychogenic modes) is important because it shows that the nature of societies and culture is largely determined by its child raising practices. The history of childhood is a history of the mitigation of the abuse that infants and children have been subject to as humanity advanced from the most primative forms of society.
Infants and children are programmed by the punishments and rewards that they are subject to, and the farther we go back in history the more severe have been the punishments and the less beneficial have been the rewards. In the most primitive of societies we find infants routinely being sacrificed, used as sexual objects, starved, and beaten to death. The "psychogenic mode" of parenting that an individual has been subject to determines the degree of hostility and anger towards others that is experienced by the adult; and this violence, in either its repressed or overt forms, and creates limits to the character not only of the individuals subject to abuse, but of societies and nature of the culture.
His
insights regarding "The Childhood Origins of
Terrorism " focuses on a pattern
of systematic abuse, which is the common background of those
who go on to become terrorists, by
recognizing the centrality of child rearing as critical to the
understanding
of adult
behaviors/thoughts/actions. Terrorism manifests itself in
individuals who experience conflict
with the world as it
is versus their expectations of what it should be because of their
childhood experiences of abuse.
The institutions of our society were developed at a time when child
abuse was universally practiced.
Some of Lloyd deMause's ideas are controversial. His graphic descriptions of abuse are not for the young or the emotionally sensitive. It is unfortunate that his choice of phrases to describe certain patterns of conduct are emotionally charged, because the issues that he writes about deal with unconscious motivations that shock the conscience. DeMause does not sugar coat the harsh realities that infants and children have been subject to throughout history, or the motivations of those who subjected infants and children to that conduct, but brings it into a harsh light. Reading about this abuse will be disturbing to the reader, but by bringing it into the light it will be brought to an end. For the infants and children around the world who are now being abused your brief discomfort will help bring about an end to their torture.
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See also http://www.psychohistory.us
In the United States we don't know how many children are being abused. All of the statistics about child abuse in the United States that have been compiled are suspect. We can't tell you how many children died of abuse because studies of reported deaths in two states would suggest that in those state's rates of death by abuse are under reported by over 50%.
In cases of abuse involving death, mothers have a role in 64% of reported deaths and fathers have a role in 38% of deaths.
Parental Status of Victim's Perpetrator(s) | Victims | Percent |
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Mother Only | 221,153 | 40.8 |
Father Only | 101,848 | 18.8 |
Mother and Father | 91,639 | 16.9 |
Mother and Other | 34,038 | 6.3 |
Father and Other | 5,878 | 1.1 |
Nonparental Perpetrator(s) | 72,733 | 13.4 |
Unknown | 14,987 | 2.8 |
Total | 542,277 | 100.1 |
Childhelp USA National Child Abuse Hotline 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) is a nationwide 24-hour telephone hotline that offers support and advice to:
The Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration's (SAMHSA) National Mental Health Information Center provides information about mental health via a toll-free telephone number (800-789-2647), this web site, and more than 600 publications.
US: Administration for Children and Families
Administration
for Children and Families The Children's Bureau