The Problem with PUA Advice: 2
One of the more troubling aspect of the whole PUA area, is a tendency by many practitioners to suggest that getting laid takes a lot of effort. This usually happens once their followers grumble about poor success with PUA routines.
I call this- the “self improvement” scam.
While self-improvement, per se, is not a bad idea, the BS scam that ‘you have to do a lot to get laid often’ is ridiculous.
I am not rich (yet), handsome, tall or very charming. But with some money and self confidence, I can get laid rather frequently.
Let me describe the previous week, from my perspective
On last sunday, I got an text invitation from thick gal (previously known as fattie) to watch a movie with her at 1.00 am (after my misadventure with saturday gal). I went to her place, and we did it three times. For a ‘thick’ gal, her riding ability was very good. She did use her finger on my asshole and I did see stars on the second and third time (described in a previous post).
It was a Heineken and domino’s pizza date. Did spend the night with her as I was exhausted by the third time (see reason above). What she lacks in a sexy slim figure is partially made up by very good technique. I gave her couple of thorough poundings in multiple positions, the ‘finger technique’ was her finishing trick. The first one was in the shower/tub.. a bit slippery for a good pounding.
On Wednesday, I saw a new escort (the top left hand side gal in my May 6 photomontage. She was a very good rider and gave a decent BJ. Her looks really helped, as she was solidly built but still slender (my type of gal). The reverse cowgirl view made me finish the first time.. second time was a doggystyle finish. BJ was OK, but not spectacular, but her riding ability was exemplary. She also knew a thing or two about playing with balls..
On Thursday, thick gal promised me an early evening surprise. It consisted of a Titfuck,BJ and rimming combo with some finger stimulation (2 times). I was told to ‘just relax and enjoy it’.. and I did. Every part of my body, except one, was relaxed by her ministrations. After Wednesday, I did not believe that there was any stuff in me. But she managed to get a lot out.. The best part of thick gals are their tits, and she used them well.
I have mixed feelings about thick gal. While she is very competent, I would prefer to be not seen around her (and I think she knows that). But what the heck, sex is not bad.
Today, I made an appointment with a semi-pro who I frequently see. She often gives me freebies or refuses to take the full fee.. In any case, today she took about 75% of her hourly fee (and gave me a 1.5 hr session). She drained me three times, and it was very good. I have only now recovered from the effects of her session.
So here is the deal..
I got laid by both ‘paid’ and ‘unpaid’ women. The total damage to my pocket was 40$ + 260$ + 20$ + 150$ = 470$. I got it on with three gals (a 5, 6-7 and an 8). They made me cum 3 + 2 + 2 + 3 = 10 times. Out of them, 5-6 orgasms were mind blowing and rest were very satisfying.
So what do you think? Was it worth it?
I think it was absolutely worth it, and many of you could afford something just like me. Don’t restrict yourself to just ‘paid’ or ‘unpaid’ pussy. Do them both.. but remember that ‘paid’ pussy is always there, as long as you have money.
More next time.. and yes, I like a little finger/tongue on my asshole.. It feels really good with a BJ/HJ/TF. A woman who is good at that will make you blow with an intensity that is unearthly, and two of them did that to me this week.
$470 * 52 weeks = nearly $25,000 a year. That’s a quarter million a decade (not counting inflation or compounding). All that money just for temporary sensation and no long-term benefit (family/children).
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How much does a wife cost? How much does dating cost? How much do kids cost?
How much does divorce cost? Alimony? Child support?
And is marriage or having kids an investment for men anymore?
Whether “family/children” are a benefit is up in the air really. A quarter mil = College tuition for one child who will eventually put your ass in a nursing home.
Are you worried about arrest? I know using agencies is generally safe but it only takes one sting and you may have to register as a sex offender. Try getting a decent job or an apartment lease with that on your record. I don’t object to using hookers, but using them in the US is risky. What do the guys on the forums say? Are stings rare?
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There is more than one country in N. America.
“How much does a wife cost? How much does dating cost? How much do kids cost?
How much does divorce cost? Alimony? Child support?
And is marriage or having kids an investment for men anymore?”
Divorce is pretty rare for high IQ/college-educated middle and upper middle class people and even moreso if you marry a quality woman. Calculate your odds here:
http://www.divorce360.com/content/divorcecalculator.aspx
Dating is pretty cheap. One escort session can cover a dozen dates.
Kids can be as cheap or expensive as you make them out to be – same for a wife. I paid my own way through college. My parents really didn’t spend much on me. Clothes and toys came from thrift stores. Somehow, I ended up ok.
I worked at a public accounting firm for three years and prepared hundreds of tax returns. Alimony payments were extremely rare. I only saw two returns that had them.
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What should I believe, your BS or my eyes?
Apply your skepticism to yourself. You’ll find emotion rather than reason (true of people, myself included).
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I have, and my observations are based on what is visible around me.
I also work in public accounting and have never seen alimony (not child support) out of hundreds of tax returns. The returns are for mostly affluent folks. However, to me normal marriage still looks like a crappy deal and too risky based on the potential reward.
You’re assuming that every married guy who hasn’t gotten divorced is happy as opposed to trapped. As for quality women, you never know what you’ve got until after you’ve signed the contract. There’s a lot of bait and switch going on out there, don’t kid yourself.
I can respect your reasons for staying non-exclusive, hell I endorse it. However, cost issues aside, do you ever think that your reliance on escorts hurts your Game? I know you’ve got after it with hotter, non-paid women than the fatty, but you keep coming back to the fatty and supplementing her with an escort or two. My question is this, have you gotten to a point of ‘going soft’ (pun intended) on your Game because of the ease and certainty of using prostitutes?
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How many different women have you had since Jan 1, 2010.. Me = 14 “paid” + 4 “unpaid”… and a couple of other “experiences”.
Neo: What are you trying to tell me? That I can dodge bullets?
Morpheus: No, Neo. I’m trying to tell you that when you’re ready, you won’t have to.
I understand the value of variety in experiences, but that wasn’t my question. My question is do you think your unpaid sex to date total (4) would be higher than (or even with) your paid sex total (14) if you relied less upon escorts and applied more concentration to your Game?
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Yes, but they would be mostly 5,6 and 7s who threw a lot of BS at me.
Plus one “unpaid” gal was a very regular booty call for almost 2 years. Hardly something to sneer it.
If a variety of sexual experience is the goal, would it not stand to reason that unpaid sex would be preferable to paid sex if the quality of the experiences were similar?
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IF it was equally easy, yes.
In fact repeatedly going back to the fat girl almost defeats the point of placing experience as the qualifier since you already know what to expect from her, and you’ve admitted her weight is problematic for you, yet you continue to entertain her. Why?
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She has amazing technique.. and to be truthful- she is thick, not obese.
Plus she is not a raging bitch. Would you refuse a thick but otherwise OK gal, who wanted to have sex with you.
I am very impressed by the people who have shared their lies…. I mean OBSERVATIONS with us. If I had to take a good look at them, I’d say that they talk exactly like a number of people who have also lied to me.