Escorts are a better deal than ‘real’ women- II
One commentator in my previous post mentioned the economics of buying sex as a potential issue in it’s widespread acceptance. I would first like to address that:
Ask yourself a simple question:
How much do you spend to keep your ‘relationship’ and ‘family’ intact, and how much sex do you get per 1000 $/ you spend on it?
Let us take a few typical cases.
1. You are married for over 5 years, with a kid or two.
The first issue is that most women with rugrats are not into lots of sex, unless they are young (say under 25). Given the average age of marriage and kids today, you will be lucky to have biweekly sex with a tired and worn out body (over 30), who keeps on reminding you about how she could have done better.
If you stay in the marriage (or she does not throw you out), you will have to make up for her reduced income, pay for a bigger home, bigger car, kid activities, college fund etc. What do you get for that?
Now if she divorces you, you have to pay alimony and child support. Remember that almost all divorces are initiated by women, and you have no say about that matter? How much will you have to pay? and What do you get for it?
2. You are a 20-something trying to get lots of action.
Now I know that many of you have heard about game and it’s practitioners and defenders. I would like to add that game certainly works, as long as you understand the concept (and improvise) as opposed to trying worn out routines. Having said that, have you really considered the costs (direct and indirect) in practicing game? Let us say you are moderately proficient in game, and you get new pussy fairly frequently, say a couple new gals per month. Even then, you cannot dictate what kind of pussy you want. You take what you can get, and keep on playing bigger mind games just to stay in place.
But what do ‘you’ really want? The true love of a woman? Women love how you make them feel, not you. Maybe you will settle for temporary infatuation? Would you buy a car that always exploded without warning? As I said, it is your choice.. Maybe you are more realistic and want domination.. In that case you would be much better off traveling to poorer countries with hot women. False promises and the right passport will make you a stud. But what is in it for ‘you’?
It ultimately comes down to sex with an attractive woman who is not psycho, and can pretend to like you for for an hour or so. That is what men really want, under all those justifications and talk. Now it would be nice if that woman could be trustworthy and helpful, but that is the icing not the cake.
Escorts are just the easiest way to achieve that end. Future post in this series will explore more scenarios and tips for getting a good experience with escorts.
Read the next part here Escorts are a better deal than ‘real’ women- III
How trite.
Please try harder to come up with something interesting or insightful before you spam your sad blog.
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Coming from someone who does not blog?
Obviously a feminist or possibly a lesbian.
You make a convicing economic argument for your position AD. I can’t help resenting women getting paid to do something that they like themselves admittedly, but I guess if a guy has budgeted around it and goes into it with his eyes open, he could make it work for him.
Our misandrist laws toward men have made a bad marriage a veritable disaster for the male financially and legally.
You take the cake man. Funny, logical and real…
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Could not agree more. I had the serious relationship with one son. Worked my guts out.sex once a month if I was lucky. She was less than attractive and did nothing to help herself . constantly bitched about it though. She left me moved in with my arsehole brother. Because I called her a slut apparently I rated a restraining order. Now I dont see my little boy at all. After that I tried suicide obviously unsuccessfully. Not sure whether thats lucky or not . Now I no longer give a fuck about life or love
When I was a 15 year old apprentice carpenter my boss said Son all women are whores they just have a different price tag.
Moral of my life story find em flirt with em fuck em then most important fuck em off and move on to the next. Sex with a hooker is certainly cheaper and more satisfying than going thru the bullshit
I feel so sad for you, and I feel sad I found your blog through pharmaceutical posts (I’m a pharmacologist). Do you realize that most women worldwide are trafficked into prostitution? Even if the women you hire are not trafficked, you’re giving demand to a system that ruins millions of lives. Take a long, hard look at yourself in the mirror.
LOL, everybody is trafficked worldwide.
It’s called working.
If you have some real arguments that make sense,
feel free to submit it to this page:
human-stupidity.com/stupid-dogma/prostitution/feminist-arguments-against-prostitution-dismantled
Here is one comment that you may not like reading (which is why I put it up):
Unlucky Bones says:
This has been a long while since anyone has posted on it, but I feel my opinion is just as valid, even if belated. I work construction, everyday, I am subjected to the wims of my boss, and those whom we are employed by. I am subjected to numerous things that will harm me later in life. I breathe in toxic elements, and I am subject to the dangerous situations that come with the job. I did not chose this willingly, It was my last source of money. My boss is my pimp, the homeowners are my clients. I am repeatedley fucked by both. I am worn out each day, bellittled by those in power. And you know what, I would rather suck dick then deal with them sometimes. And I am a hetero male..
February 22, 2014, 6:42 pm
Otherwise, pipe down. Women live off the civilisation men created – so that men could get sexual access – but the women are now saying “you men are owed nothing”. Failed states are what happens, when men agree and tell women “now, you can try to make your way in a world where a guy isn’t willing to put his life on the line for you, since … men are owed nothing by you women”.
I started to reply to her comment, but you’ve summed it up. For one, p*ssy is never free. In fact like my stepfather told me, nothing in life is free but walks in the park, elevator rides and prayer – none of which is doing anything for my black ass.
Two, I go out of my way to see women who are not trafficked and I chose those who are independent adults who know what they’re doing. So how does equal transactions ruin millions of lives, whether money is involved or not? I guess it ruins the fantasies of people who don’t get chose, that’s all.
Does she stupidly believe that paid sex “ruins more lives” than… let’s say… scams like “law and order” or “spirituality”? But people think that shit is normal. Feminist and traditional psychobabble – Sometimes the same people who perpetuate myths of trafficking also believe slavery was normal and that blacks should “get over it” and they love competing in the “victim olympics”.
Last time I checked, all of us has sold ourselves to the highest bidder for money.
A gem from the blog: Feminists imply, a $ 400 an hour luxury prostitute that earns much more than most of their customers is a victim.
Feminists can do something about it by advising married woman to agree to sex with their husbands readily so the traffic to the professional provider is reduced to minimum. If the wife doesn’t cook at home the guy has to order out. Right?
Forgot to include this in the post:
Feminism is the movement to:
1) Allow free sexual license to women and give them the idea they are a rating standards board so that they can stop regular men from meeting younger women,
so that later in life
2) The women of step 1 will have thirsty men they can leech off of and blame for her previous bad decisions (that those thirsty men – previously unwanted – were not a party to).
In short, it’s to get compensation from regular men while she previously fucked Alphas.
Escorts I see make around $10 000 a week tax free, doing something like doing anyway, so don’t feel sorry for them, feel sorry for the poor dads who got taken for a ride by the most ruthless kind of prostitute there is in the dictionary she is a female equivalent of a pirhanna – it’s called Wife.
Yep. The ones I used to see didn’t make that much, but the ones I saw regularly were independent and did it by their own admission. God damn, Summer 2013 is one summer that stays in my head endlessly. Three bad bitches on the regular!
How much do you spend to keep your ‘relationship’ and ‘family’ intact, and how much sex do you get per 1000 $/ you spend on it?
For every other guy who is not a male model,
unless you are holding something over her,
these are the hoops you will be going through to be paid in sex:
(Would ladies be angry if Sean O’ Pry said this? Or it’s just anger-inducing because a regular guy points it out, lol )
Scoured from the Internet archives, Cost of Sex with a Girlfriend AND Cost of Sex with a Wife: (the website at costofsex.com and its interactive Javascript calculator are now offline)
Cost of Sex with a Girlfriend:
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Time you waste on your GF
How many hours do you spend having stupid conversations with your GF (per week):
How many hours do you spend watching TV shows with her you would rather not watch (per week):
How many hours do you spend doing other stupid things with her you would rather not do (per week):
How many hours do you spend commuting to/from your GF per week:
Money you spend on your GF
How much do you spend on taking her out to dinners/drinks per week:
How much do you spend on other entertainment and buying things for your GF per week:
How much you spend on everything else for her – vacations, shopping, gifts, etc…(per year):
Other
How much do you earn per hour:
How often do you have sex with your GF per week (on average):
Results
Hours you waste on your GF per week:
Money you spend on your GF per week:
Financial cost of sex (one time), not including the cost of time you waste:
Real cost of having sex (one time) with your GF (your time + money):
Cost of Sex with a Wife:
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Emotional cost
How many hours do you spend having pointless conversations with your wife per week (conversations you would rather not have):
How many hours does your wife spend either nagging at you, or being upset with you (per week, only include hours you are in the same location):
How many hours do you spend watching TV shows with your wife you don’t really want to watch (per week):
How many hours do you spend doing other things with your wife you would rather not do (per week):
Money you spend on your wife
How much do you spend on housing per month:
How much would you spend on housing if you were single (per month – make your best guess):
How much do you spend on your wife (besides housing) per month:
Big ticket items (not included above), such as a car, vacations, etc you buy your wife – per year:
Other
How many times do you have sex with your wife per year:
Results
Hours of your time your wife sucks out of you per week:
Money you spend on your wife per week:
Emotional cost of sex – hours of your free time you waste to have sex (one time) with your wife:
Financial cost of having sex (one time) with your wife:
This thread seems as good a place as any to post the following, a question from a mother, copied from a “Dear Prudence” advice column dated 5/18/15:
“Q. Daughter Wannabe Actress: My daughter went to an Ivy League college and graduated near the top of her class in economics. She declared late in her senior year that she wanted to be an actress and did not want to work a traditional 9-to-5 job. Five years later and after paying for acting classes, she is living at home and getting bit jobs. Every time I suggest she look for a full-time job, she tells me she won’t be happy with a 9-to-5 job. Then she accuses me of being unsupportive of her aspirations. (Dad has always been a soft touch.) I have seen her act, and she has no great talent, but I could not say this to her. I want to see her become an independent young lady. Where do I start?”
Apart from the issues this advice-solicit raises about the parenting abilities of this spoiled bitch’s parents, my thoughts include, “I bet this girl would claim she supports feminism (although she’d probably have little clue what she’s parroting about feminism really involves); and, I bet if she could find some desperate guy (read: “substitute-daddy”) to marry her and therefore support her and her self-absorbed, useless-eater ‘aspirations’, five years later she’d be using her otherwise-unvalued Ivy league parchment to hammer the now-sexless guy with, ‘consider yourself lucky that such an educated society woman as myself deemed to be your partner!’ “.
It’s a microcosm of the female self-contradiction between what women’s subordinate rational bio-wiring leads them to ‘say” (as in, “women want societally-productive careers, same as men do”) and what their dominant emotional bio-wiring leads them to do (as in, “follow your heart, not your reason, even if that means pursuing frivolous whims at others — read, ‘men’s’ — expense).
Great article and I agree. I am married now but went to escorts for years. I was into eating pussy, deep french kissing and foot fetish. I am very oral. Did all three. Never caught anything, had a great time. I don’t have any animosity towards regular girls but they did not want me so I went for strippers and escorts. It is just an economic and rational decision. What’s wrong with that? Answer: Nothing.
I have used the services of strippers and escorts over the years and enjoyed it. Looking back I would have done it less. I paid because women were not interested in me. So if women in general treat a guy like a lesser human while throwing themselves at Thugs, ex-cons and Bad Boys do you want to pay for the company of women? For me (now) the answer is still yes, but maybe not so often. Here’s my logic: To the decent guys out there who have been treated like trash by Thug chasing females maybe it is best to detach from women except for an occasional tryst with a stripper or escort. When an entire gender throws you in the trash can their appeal goes way down. Just my thoughts guys.