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The problem that I have been trying to solve for a long time is finding a decent community. So far everything I have tried has failed. I currently believe that associating with a conservative Mennonite church is the best potential solution. But before discussing that I would like to enumerate my failures for context.

CoAlpha - A long time ago I thought that feminism was the problem and I wanted to organize men on the internet to resist. Everything was wrong with this concept. Feminism is not the problem and the internet is useless to organize people.

Mikraite - After CoAlpha, I realized that religion is the core issue. This Mikraite site has changed, but the original concept was to organize a religion based on the Old Testament. Again I tried to organize on the internet which just doesn't work. Plus most people don't share my passion for the Old Testament, and I don't have the charisma of a prophet, so this didn't work.

Mennonite 1 - My idea for Mikraite was to move near a Mennonite church since the Mennonites seemed closest to Old Testament values. Mikraites and my wife both wanted to be near a big city, so I looked at churches outside of cities. No location suited everyone and eventually I gave up.

Islam - Unlike the Mennonites, there are Muslims where I live, so I went to their mosque. I have discussed Islam enough in this sub, but the bottom line is that Muslims don't form communities, so this doesn't work.

So what have I learned? I am not a prophet and I shouldn't start religions. Internet groups don't work and the internet is basically useless. And I shouldn't wait for others to agree, I should just act based on what I think is best.

I now see the Mennonites somewhat differently than before. I see them as a kind of Benedict Option in that they have a lot in common with the monks who rejected Roman culture and formed monasteries. Their churches are islands of sanity in an insane world. Anyone who values goodness would benefit from associating with a conservative Mennonite church.

So now I want to move near a Mennonite church. Of course I would love if others would do the same, but I won't hold my breath. If anyone else is interested in researching this option, here are instructions. I fly to Pennsylvania on Monday and I will visit Lancaster to investigate this option. My wife's disgust for modern culture has grown over the last few years to the point where she doesn't need to be in a big city, so we can investigate smaller cities like Lancaster. In the unlikely event that someone else here finds a promising place, I would also check that out. I will keep researching until I find a good place and then I will move.

Of course I am not 100% sure that the Mennonites are the solution, but I have eliminated all other options that I know of. So I will focus on this. I suggest that others here at least visit a conservative Mennonite church before passing judgement on this option.

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The decaying Roman Empire is the closest analogy in history to our time. Some use this to argue for the Benedict Option. To better understand this historical time period, I have been reading books from that time.

First I read and skimmed The Later Roman Empire by Ammianus Marcellinus. Marcellinus was in the Roman army. He was what we could call a conservative today. He supported traditional Roman values and was a Pagan. He had great interest in politics and believed that a good leader could save Rome. Most of the book is all about politics and the leading figures of his time. History proved Marcellinus wrong, the politics made no difference. The good leaders made no difference. The culture was simply hopelessly rotten. And the same holds true today. Because the politics is so irrelevant, I skimmed much of this. Much more interesting were his few accounts of the Romans at this time.

Men of learning and sobriety are shunned as bringers of bad luck who have nothing to contribute.

If they [nobles] hear of the sudden appearance of some obscure strumpet, some old street-walker who has earned her living by selling herself to the townsfolk, they vie in courting and caressing the newcomer, and praise her in such outrageously flattering terms as the Parthians used to Semiramis, the Egyptians to their Cleopatras, the Carians to Artemisia, or the people of Palmyra to Zenobia. Such is the behaviour of men among whose ancestors a senator was thought to have behaved improperly and to deserve a reprimand from the censor because he kissed his wife in the presence of their own daughter.

Let me now turn to the idle and lazy proletariat. [...] They devote their whole life to drink, gambling, brothels, shows, and pleasure in general. Their temple, dwelling, meeting-place, in fact the centre of all their hopes and desires, is the Circus Maximus.

To turn now to the vulgarity of the stage. The players are hissed off unless the favour of the mob has been purchased by a bribe. If there is no demonstration of this sort they follow the example of the savages of the Chersonese, and clamour for the expulsion of foreigners from the city, though they have always been dependent on the help of these same foreigners for their livelihood. Their language is foul and senseless, very different from that in which the commons of earlier times expressed their feelings and wishes, and of which many witty and elegant examples are preserved by tradition.

I am now reading Early Christian Lives. I now have a better understanding of the development of monasticism. Saint Benedict did not single-handedly save Europe. He was part of a long sequence of developments. The real founder of monasticism was Saint Antony. He simply rejected the culture of his time and moved into the desert (in Egypt where he lived) to get away from his degenerate culture. This caused others to follow his example and they were the desert monks. Over time, they became more organized and developed monasteries. And finally Saint Benedict came up with a good set of rules for a monastery.

It's worth noting that the normal people of this time thought that these early monks were irrelevant lunatics and that the leading politicians of their time were the people who mattered. History has proven the opposite to be true.

So the first step was not organizing a community. The first step was for individuals to recognize that their culture had become intolerably corrupt, and to reject that culture and move away from it. These people tended to move near each other and only later did communities form. And the same applies today. This argues for an informal Mennonite Solution where decent people move near conservative Mennonite churches to learn how to live as free from modern culture as possible. This is the Antony option because it is based on the action of individuals, not organizing a group.

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I was reading a fitness post. Everyone was giving the OP bad advice that was going to be significantly detrimental to his ability to reach his goals. They were giving this bad advice with a cheery tone and lots of encouragement.

The OP, not having been aware of the bad advice, had made better progress than the people replying. So they tried to drag him down to their mediocrity. The progress he had made should have been proof that their ideas were incorrect. Rather than reevaluate their incorrect ideas to fit the world, they decided they would rather change the world to fit their ideas.

This little example struck me as how things generally work in the modern world. It is not direct evil, born of conscious malice. It is indirect evil, born of ignorance, stupidity, and unconscious malice.

Everyone in the modern world is so secure and smug in their personal holiness. And continually their actions or the actions of those they support bring about horrible results. What is their reaction? If they even acknowledge that the results were less than perfect, which they rarely do, they say "oh well at least we tried. Our intentions were good" and move on to the next thing which demands their attention.

Most people are sinners of omission more than of commission. They believe in the idea that intentions are all that matters and don't care much about the actual results. But when your good intentions continually create evil then it belies the claim that your heart is in the right place. A tree is judged by its fruit. The next time someone starts talking in self satisfied moral outrage, evaluate whether what they are saying is true, and what the results of what they are saying if enacted would be, and you will see they are just disguising their evil behind righteous words.

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Most posts here are "how modern culture is bad" or "why modern culture is bad". Very few are about solutions. My two pinned posts are about a solution to the problem of community, as yet unproven. But community isn't the only problem. Every interaction with modern culture, and every use of a product or service of modern culture, is a miserable experience. Anything that offers an alternative, that allows one to interact less with modern culture and the garbage that it produces, is a solution.

As a programmer, I have developed a solution to the misery of dealing with horrible modern software. I have developed my own tools based on Luan which includes a general parser, a webserver, and a hosting service. This shabbat I have been thinking that I should put more effort into making this available to other programmers who hate modern software.

I encourage everyone develop alternatives to modern culture and its garbage, and to post about it here. Let's do what we can to escape the misery of modern culture.

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The intern I am mentoring at work is very autistic. He is not shy - just autistic and has poor social skills.

At first I liked him a lot because, as a social reject myself, I identified with him. I would take an autist over a sociable normie any day. He also does good work. We gave him a longer term project over the summer, he got it done, and as far as I can tell his project was of great use to our clients.

My problem with him is he does not seem to take work seriously. For example, he was having trouble debugging his software at work and asked me for help. I go and sit at his computer and as I am showing him what to do, he pulls out his smartphone and starts playing a videogame that looked like World of Warcraft. I called him out and said "Are you playing games?" He apologized and said he won't do it again. Two minutes later, as I'm explaining the procedure to him, I see him playing the same game on his phone.

I'm on good speaking terms with my boss, and so I think my input could influence whether this intern gets hired. I want to see him succeed because he seems to be a social reject which is something I identify with. But at the same time, I find it difficult to give a good review of someone who doesn't at least pretend to listen to me when I speak. Not just because it pisses me off, but because it could piss off clients as well and then any future recommendations I make would be viewed as less credible.

I don't think he doesn't care about getting hired. He seems genuinely worried about his job prospects. He is just very autistic.

What should my attitude be towards this intern?

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I am curious to see what operating systems and software people here use. I will briefly review some of the software that I use:

  • I use Debian 9 as my primary OS at home, with Gnome desktop environment. I have Windows too for when I need it, but I prefer Debian for two reasons: 1) Windows takes a very long time to boot on my computer, whereas Debian boots instantly, and 2) Debian doesn't force me to update and restart my computer at inconvenient times

  • Git and Github. I can't think of a single instance where git has made my life easier. When encountering any other git related problem, it's usually easier to just delete the repository and start over. People say that git has a steep learning curve, and that my problem is that I just don't know enough git, but no matter how much git I learn it's never enough. I do like Github for the most part though, because it is a nice interface for looking at source code. However, I wish Github would make it easier to look at the code's history - something like Wikipedia would be nice.

  • Pandas DataFrame. It is a package for python which allows you to perform spreadsheet tasks from within a python program. I have mixed feelings about pandas. On one hand, it has a bunch of useful functions. On the other, its syntax is in my opinion very ugly, there are lots of functions that perform similar but slightly different tasks (which makes it difficult to remember what exactly each function does), and the pandas developers keep needlessly altering the language, depreciating functions, forcing users to alter their programs to conform to the developers' whims

  • Android Studio. Me and a friend have been developing a game app for the last 6 months, which we recently completed. We got the game part of the app (animations, etc.) done very quickly, because it was mostly just pure java programming. Designing the menu, on the other hand, required programming using the Android SDK which is absolute garbage. Android developers have a talent for making simple things complicated. For example, here is the code you have to write to get a scrollable list of items:

    https://developer.android.com/guide/topics/ui/layout/recyclerview#java

    Here is how to do the same thing in HTML:

    https://www.w3schools.com/howto/howto_css_table_responsive.asp

  • Conda. Conda is a package manager for python. I want to update my python version, but conda won't let me because a bunch of python packages I installed a long time ago and don't care about depend on the older python version. I don't care about those packages and want conda to force update python anyway. But there is no way of doing this in Conda. Conda won't let me update python unless I manually uninstall those packages. I wouldn't mind if conda automatically uninstalls the packages, but I don't have the time to type out the names of all those packages and uninstall them myself.

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fschmidt Is from El Paso

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Just google "i get turned on when my boyfriend is angry" and look at all the results.

You have to act like a high testosterone ape or women will not be attracted to you. If you are calm, collected, logical, then you are boring to women. This is why nerds have trouble getting women, while men like this do not:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FXHoHZKE_7o

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/r/DebateAltRight/comments/ckmuea/beware_of_e_michael_jones_hes_spreading_jewish/

This illustrates that the Alt-Right is no better than the Left. Equally moronic, intolerant, and immoral. Modern culture is uniformly evil across the political spectrum from the Left to the Right. And of course I can't comment on this post because I am banned from /r/DebateAltRight.

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The average redditor's response would be "it's because they're all slaves who are forced to come here". Anyone here have an alternative theory? I find it truly puzzling that such a large percentage of prostitutes in US brothels are foreign born (usually Asian). Why are American women willing to have sex with the hunks for free, but they don't want to become prostitutes and get paid hundreds of dollars per hour for having sex?

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Since women prefer tall men, you would expect tall men to be selected for, and for the height of the population to keep increasing. But studies have not shown an increase in the average height of the white American population in the last 20 years. Why aren't Americans getting taller any more?

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Most people are confused about the evil of Judaism. Some nationalists attack Zionism which is stupid hypocrisy because Zionism is nothing but nationalism, so it isn't the problem. Some racists think that the jewish race is the problem, but racism is just stupid because the difference between individuals within a race is much greater than the difference between races. The true evil of Judaism is Judaism itself, a fundamentally evil religion that rejects God. This is best illustrated in the Talmudic story of Rabbi Eliezer.

https://youtu.be/tddCNY6U77Y?t=1320

The speaker here is a Karaite. In case you doubt the accuracy, here is the same story from Chabad.

https://www.chabad.org/library/article_cdo/aid/352329/jewish/The-Walls-of-the-Study-Hall.htm

Chabad is one of the biggest orthodox jewish groups. And finally, here is the story in the Talmud itself.

http://www.sacred-texts.com/jud/t06/me105.htm

Search in the page for the text "Eliezer" to find it.

This story, by itself, is enough to illustrate that Judaism rejects God and says that rabbis are to rule here on Earth. This is the fundamental source of Jewish evil. Here are some resources that show how this evil manifests itself.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YSy6ENVAJlY

https://www.amazon.com/Jewish-History-Religion-Thousand-Political-ebook/dp/B00GGOEL4A/

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A woman has roughly 20 years when her fertility is very good: between the ages of 15 and 35.

If you plan on marrying a woman for life, it would be evolutionarily advantageous to marry her when she is 20 as opposed to 30. When she is 20, she has 15 fertile years ahead of her, whereas when she is 30 she only has 5 fertile years ahead of her. And so you can have more kids with a woman who is 20 than you can with a woman who is 30.

Bur what if you don't plan on marrying a woman for life? What if you plan on having a very short term relationship with her? In that case it makes no difference whether she is 20 or 30, because either way you will have at most 1 kid with her. The number of fertile years she has ahead of her does not matter in short term relationships - all that matters is how fertile she is at the present moment.

It then follows that in societies where lifelong marriages are common, there will be great evolutionary incentive for men to marry teenaged girls. But in societies where short term relationships are common, it will make no evolutionary difference how old a man's girlfriend is, as long as she is pre-menopausal.

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Because the light will burn you, it will devour you, until there's nothing left of you, nothing but burnt meat.

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Almost all people who are pushing modern degeneracy are atheists. Atheism will always lead to degeneracy because in an atheist world there are no boundaries and no moral for people.

Also most atheists are ignorant, arrogant sheep who've never thought things through and are just repeating things parrot-fashion. If they thought things through then they would have recognized that the differences between atheism lived by 99,99999% of atheists and theism aren't even much different from each other.

Atheists who aren't Nihilists are the most contradictory and coping people in the whole world. Especially if they feel superior to religious people.

I consider myself an agnostic deist and am very interested in Islam.

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My 28 years old aunt (I'm 20) converted to Islam 2 years ago when she married a Tunisian. That's when I first got into contact with Islam. My interest got "reawoken" after the Incel problem became mainstream after the Toronto attacks.

I know some people here are saying this "WE NEED ISLAM TO TAKE OVER THE WEST BECAUSE IT'S SUPPRESSING WOMEN" stuff but that's just not true in my opinion. I mean I know my aunt and several other muslim women and it doesn't suppress them (they aren't unhappy, it's the contrary which is the case) it's just making better people out of them.

The problem with many people here is that they're just being very irrationally damning about women. Ironically it are Ex-Muslim Curries showing this tendency the most. You can't discuss anything with them. People here should realize that it's not only the WOMANS fault but also the MANS. Women are whoring around and having ridiculously high standards but it are the needy MEN who presented them with this opportunity. Chads fucking and ruining girls 6 levels below them. These are YOUR looksmatches, YOUR women! Still you're trying to tell me that Chads are our allies? Chads are whoring around just like women do. They are also downgrading and thus lowering our genders value greatly. Cucks and Betas are downgrading into oblivion aswell and even orbiting land whales. Plus they're offering women an emergency exit for their previous whore lifes and thus abolishing all possible consequences for a womans behaviour during her pre-wall time.

Needy men are fucking it up for us. Even here Volcels are being unjustly criticised by Incels just because they're turning down disgusting women and having ELIGIBLE standards. When will you finally realize that we wouldn't have had this problem if males continued to have eligible standards and never started lowering them so severely and downgrading? Fuck whoring Chads and fuck needy, pathetic Cucks and Betas. They are responsible for the decline of our genders value. The cunning women did nothing else but to exploit the offerings and possibilities stupid men presented them.

Islam isn't good because it's suppressing women. That's just not applicable. It's good because it can succesfully hold both genders under control and create a working system. Islam knows that both men and women need to be influenced. Humans can't handle too much freedom. They are devoting themselves to harmful desires. And to me it seems like that's exactly what Islam is fighting and trying to improve. The faith being stronger than the lust and thus creating stable and healthy relationships and marriages. It can't be a surprise that muslim marriages are by far the most stable.

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Many people are confusing natural selection with sexual selection. The former produces fit offspring, the latter is sometimes really arbitrary (especially in the case of todays humanity) and often species became crippled or even went extinct because of it.

Dark triad men are neither good for the women nor good for society and humanity in general, in fact they are very harmful. Still women are going after them.

If women went after good personalities and intelligence instead then humanity would be on a whole new level. But if tomorrow every man became a Chad then women would go primarily after Dark triad features in men. Those men would dominate the gene pool and society would collapse.

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American culture has become purely evil. So what allows any goodness to survive? Only the fact that most Americans are too stupid to notice subtle distinctions between good and evil. Whenever an American can distinguish between good and evil, he will always choose evil. Because the population of a place like Silicon Valley is intelligent enough to almost always make this distinction, Silicon Valley is pure evil. But because the population of middle America is stupid, goodness can survive because it is not recognized.

This issue came up in a website that I am working on. All Silicon Valley web design is evil, designed to be unusable and to violate every good concept of the original vision of the Web. And in fact all websites produced by Silicon Valley are horrible. But Amazon is not horrible because it is not from Silicon Valley. The average American can't distinguish between good and bad web design, so both work for middle America. But any good web design will be hated by Silicon Valley people and other technical Americans who can distinguish. The good news is that these intelligent scum do not dominate most markets, so you can do good web design and still make money. I plan to prove this with A/B testing.

So let us say a prayer of thanks to God for making the average American stupid enough that goodness can still survive in this land.

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