I don't care how amazing your personality is. If you arent attractive we have nothing. lol thats why im single.
Moreso looks and then hope and pray the personality matches. I cant date a dude who Im not physically attracted to. Nope.
"Looks don't matter" Truth of the matter is physical attraction matters just as much as the personality does, but to each his own I guess....
Both..but I don't see personality first. Too shallow for an ugly dude. If you're ugly that bank account gotta make up for it.
Both ; one cannot exist without the other. If you're dating a man just because he has a nice personality, you couldn't find a man with looks. if you're dating a man with looks and no personality, you couldn't find one with both. To omit looks is to lie because when you meet someone, the first thing you notice is their looks. That's what reels you in. I'm not going to date a fat man just because he makes me laugh. When it comes time to touch and rub, I'mma need you to be attractive enough to stimulate me, especially when you're on top of me staring me in my eyes.
There we go!!!!! It's not like I know you well enough to judge you by the content of your character, when we first meet, the first thing we judge each other by is looks.
I like average looking dudes with good personalities. Dude doesn't have to be a supermodel but he can't be Craig Mack either.
I doth interested in both. He doesn't need to be a 10 in the face but I have to be attracted on some level if there is no attraction at all it's harder to be into. I would be friends with him though.
Looks and then character and morals are the most important. I don't care about his personality. I can adapt to it, within reason.
Right now? Looks. I'm just out here tryna get my jollies, ya heard? I don't care if he has the personality of a wet paper bag as long as he can hold my attention for about 40 minutes. But if I were looking for love most likely both. Keep in mind that different people like different things. For instance Benedict C. Looks like a melted albino tree frog but a lot of women think he's just the bee's knees. That girl on the pic could very well think her man is the epitome of big-sexy delicious.
What I looked for when I was dating: faith, character, ambition, work ethic, personality, height, looks. In that order.
both. there has to be some visual level of attraction as well as mental. like i was involved with a dude who initially we exchanged numbers because i thought he was super cute. went out and he was so damn dry and had an arrogant factor to him. didnt really like his personality and i should have stuck with that and left dude alone. learned my lesson on that one.
Initially, the most attractive guy will catch my eye, but he's a keeper if he has a great sense of humor. An unattractive guy would have to work twice as hard to get my attention because I simply wouldn't be as interested. It's not to say that I won't marry/date a subpar-looking guy. It could definitely happen.
This bitch just put height above looks. so youd rather have some 6'7 kids looking like a goddamn camel then an attractive average height young boy? Got u
Personality than looks. He doesn't have to look like Denzel or Chestnut buy a nice personality is a plus.
=============================== we can be friends and that's about it. Guys are always trying to push for good-looking, physically fit girls/women to date boys/men who are clearly out of shape and probably wouldn't even able to run after a mugger if their girl's purse was stolen!! I want to see the reverse! But, I know that is NOT going to happen! How many men out there are willing to persuade other men to look past a woman's plain/homely appearance and discover the beauty that is on the inside?! : I'll wait....... Personally, I want a man I am attracted to (physically/sexually) and has a great personality! I wouldn't want a man to pursue me if the thought of sleeping with me grossed him out. So, why should I entertain the affections of men who make me want to recoil from their touch?