>>21046148>I truly feel sorry for the men and their experiences with such vapid females. I think this baggage has some impact on my situationIt probably does. I mean, the first thing we experience at around 16-18 years old is a massive wall of (young) womens entitlement due to their extremely high value, we get shit on, de-humanized, disparaged, all because we don't have wealth, maturity, and experience at that age, which 99% of people (at that age) don't. One of the side effects is the men who don't get participate (and there's a lot) start their sexual exploration in their mid to late twenties, usually with younger women, and it leaves the mid twenties to early thirties women high and dry since a lot want commitment. There are other problems as well, like women taking advantage of their favored position in the dating market to go on dinner dates at restaurants when they have no intention of calling them again, just to get the free meal, so now guys want to do "coffee" instead. Every man I know has some shitty story.
You're right though, it's hard to push through and learn but nobody thinks they are to blame, even though we all are.
I'm sure there's some moment like this for young women as well, a moment where you learn a lot about how scummy men are very quickly and it disillusions you.