Difference between overweight girl and thin in tightness?

nevergicinguponu, that makes sense. I think the reason why we're all responding the way we are is because he addresses it as "tightness." Upon reading the post, his main concern (according to the title and opening statements) is tightness. Now when he talks about going deeper, the only thing on my mind is him being unable to be his full size because he's so unattracted to them.

@nevergiveinguponu - Now, there's two different issues here. The QA suggested that larger girls have looser vaginas. No where in my post did I suggest he tell his lady friend to do kegels. I mentioned kegels to explain how the vaginal muscle works (it is a muscle, so therefore, it can be strengthened). My answer is an explanation to why the idea that bigger girls have looser vaginas is not true. The second issue is that if you have more fat around your genitals (either on your abdomen, thighs,

butt, or mons pubis), this can make it more difficult to penetrate someone deeply (because it can prevent you from getting physically close to the person). I didn't address this because I'm not an expert on it, but obviously trying different positions/using pillows might help). I also didn't address this because I think that having sex with someone you're not attracted to is unethical. Yes, she is getting benefits too, but the reason I see this as unethical is because: If you knew that the

person you were having sex with thought you were unattractive and you didn't turn them on, would you want to have sex with them? Personally, I wouldn't want to have sex with someone (even if it was just FWB or a ONS) if they thought I was disgusting. I'm sure a lot of women would feel the same way.

@Jinmetsu_Rasetsu: I reject your idea that "there are only 3 positions available with minimal risk to you if you have sex with a larger woman." Since I became sexually active, I have weighed everywhere between 140 lbs to 250 lbs. I have had sex in way more than just those positions (with partners who weighed less than me---between 130-170 lbs) and I have never had a problem, nor has it been "risky". Maybe I've been doing girl-on-top wrong all this time, but when I straddle my partner to be on

top, the majority of my weight is being supported by my own legs, so I'm certainly not crushing him. I have never hurt a partner because of my weight. I'm not even sure what "risk" you're talking about unless you know of a sexual position where the woman would have all of her weight on the man's chest, preventing him from breathing, so maybe you'd like to elaborate on that a bit. That said, I do realize that women carry their weight in different ways, so some women may be more limited in the