I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope this person is brought to justice and Kabier can recover from such a terrible experience. :c

Sweet mother of God!

Fffff jesus >w< I hope she's ok and that bastard gets the karma that's coming >:(

That's awful and frightening, Good luck to you both in finding yourselves a new home. I hope this passes without to much stress and heartache for you and your partner.

Oh jesus, my best wishes to both of you, and best of luck in your house hunt.

I hope you both will be fine. All my though for Kabier!

Oh fuck

I hope she gets better soon :c, sorry to hear that.

And i hope that the assaulter gets to fucking jail and receive what he did B(

I jeez, I thought it was just harassment but it was actual assault? Man...is Kabs ok?

Oh no, I'm very sorry to hear that! I hope you can both stay safe and I wish you the best of luck with your living situations

Oh...that´s terrible. I hope that kabier was not severely attacked. Best wishes for both of you .

Omg I'm so sorry to hear that! I hope things are dealt with swiftly!!

Really hope you both are able to find a very nice home. Will keep supporting both of you the best i can. Your both great artists and should be happy being together.

Oh wow! That is absolutely terrible! Im so sorry to hear that has happened!

oh that is horrible D: man, so awful :( I hope things will get better for you all

Oh my god, Lion Christ... Sweet Lord...

I hope you two recover from this... Fuck that person...

that person is the reason people hate us...not really but he did everything were petrayed as. (us furries I mean)

I hope your both ok

Oh my god; I hope that the person gets the punishment they deserve. I hope Kaiber can recover from this as best she can as well. <3

That son of a bitch, why would they do that? What reason or motive warrants that in any shape or form?

They're just evil... they had no reason.

people who can't get there kicks off or cant get someone to like them >:(

Holy shit that is scary man. And disgusting.
And less than a week before Christmas.
Hopefully all will be well in time and there will be some long lasting consequences for whoever is responsible.
And most of all-a well wish for a stable return to your normal life and Kabier's life. Especially Kabier's life.

hope the events didnt go too too far

my thoughts exactly.

that and that the offender cuts it out and gives up on whatever they were trying so nomore incidents like that happen from them atleast

same

a restraining order?
just kill em slowly and bury them, it would be self defense

Yes, my thoughts exactly!

finally someone who thinks right

likewise, there isn't a better form of punishment for the bastard

hope your both ok.

hope things are dealt with swiftly and you two are able to recover from this

I must say I'm sorry to heat this has happened to you two. I hope that Kabler will be alright.

My prayers and thoughts are with you both. I've also been sexually assaulted, so I have some understanding of the pain.

Omg I hope Kabier will recover from this my sister was close to a situation like this I hope the person that did this will be brought to justice no excuses for this

I'm really sorry that happened to Kab! I hope she is ok, sometimes that shit can really get to people who experience that. No one deserves that shit from anyone, it's not cool!

Oh god, I hope she make a full recover from this!
I wish you and her the best and hope everything works out well!

People doing those kinds of things around this time of the year is disgusting, they have no heart, no soul. And this individual should go straight to hell where people like that belong. I thop the things are going to be okay for Kabier, damnit...

I hope that assaulter get a hefty jail sentence.

I wish kabier to come back strong.

well thats just fucked up hope you're both ok

And proof that not all Canadians are good people... Good luck you two. And hopefully the rest of the year gets better for you two.

Tell her to take time an heal.

The people here can wait, she should take some time to heal. Deal with everything in time.

-Meow Cat

Well ... thats some seriously fucked up shit ... hope everything is okey now for both of you! At least have some nice christmas hopefully!

Best wishes.

you're a better man than I am, that's for sure.
I'd hunt down the fucker that does something so repulsive to someone I love and then personally ensure they wouldn't ever be a problem again.

at any rate, Its good to know you handled the situation and took the steps needed to make sure the sad loser that did this won't be a problem in the future.

Thats hard to hear. I hope you catch the guy.

Fucking hell! Was she hurt at all D8?! I hope the cops don't intend to let the guy go!

Holly shit thats not good at all I wish her and you the best and takke all the time you need to relax and all that

oh no.........
some people are dicks

I hope you and Kab stay safe.

This whole world is messed up as it is.

I hope kabier is okay and she wasnt........ penetrated..... fking burn the person, thats so sick to do something like that i hope they rot in prison and get buttfucked with a rusty spoon

She pushed him away before it got to that point thankfully. Police basically said that if you want a conviction, you need a video recording, direct witness or DNA/Bruising. If you don't come out about your assault immediately, the odds of it holding in court drop substantially.

Thats good i hope she isnt having ptsd or anything from it, what did he just randomly show up and try to assault her on the streets or at a con? And please tell me someone atleast kicked his ass.
I hope the fucker gets prosecuted, this is why i got my concealed carry permit, fking sickos like this dude need a shot to the balls when they try this and then let them rot in jail
I know she has you and friends that know her better than i but if she needs anyone to vent to or just a unbias listener my note inbox is always open <3 ;-;

Well at least either way he’ll have the sexual assault suspect on his record, and you guys getting that restraining order will prevent him doing that to anyone you see daily if he decides to commit evil again.

Nevertheless, a report and a R.O. goes a long way. If they offend again, or ever go to court, it shows a prior history and makes it more likely they eventually will be convicted.

very happy to hear That Kaiber is ok, wish you guys were down here, I'm almost positive you would have every follower/fan to back you two up in a heart beat! But still....still sickening to hear that she was sexually assaulted. Fingers crossed for you two to find a home very soon, and i wish the both of you a merry Christmas, hopefully its a good one <3

That's an unfortunate downside of "innocent until proven guilty," sometimes the guilty don't get punished. I suppose it's preferable to the alternative, but still...
I do hope Kaiber is doing okay and that this creep never tries something like this to anyone else.

Holy...damn. I hope everyone is okay. You guys deserve a hell of a lot better.

Restraining order and con ban sound very lenient tbh. If they did it once they will probably do it again.

And they probably did it before, which is why it is very important to not remain silent.

Wow... never thought I'd have to see a journal like this ever be posted :/

Hope kabier is alright.

Stay strong through this

Holy fuck. Hope the bastard gets what's coming to them. All my love to you and Kabier.

Very sorry for everything you've had to go through (both of you). You have a lot of support here if needed. Hope things settle quickly and you guys are able to recover well and stay strong. Wishing you the best.

eugh... people like that who cant take "no" for an answer. ive had to deal with one before. got the police involved before anything happened but i guess you lot werent so lucky.

i hope you have a more... quiet future ahead of you.

Men like that are gonna burn in a very special place in hell. A place reserved for rapists, and those who talk at the theater.

lips huh; how special. :P

Just a reminder to everyone out there, just because someone draws porn doesn't mean they're not real people too. Treat your artists the same way you'd want to be treated

Thanks for the concise & responsible update (and avoiding of witch-hunting). Glad to know you both handled the situation properly, and best regards to you both.

I'm very sorry this happened to you guys... prayers to you both.

Sending hugs and well wishes to you both

Oh god that's terrible! Hope everything gets better soon.

OK now I'm mad...no scratch that. I'm FURIOUS!!!

That bastard!!!

I hope Kabier is OK, and that the two of you never encounter that scumbag ever again.

Best wishes to both of you.

I'm wishing you both luck and love through this. Hug her extra for those of us here who can't J.

Damn that sucks, hope things go better

Oh shit. Sorry to hear. Hope the asshole gets the same treatment in prison.

My heart goes out to you two, best of luck in your future. I hope everything turns out okay.

ssooo why cant we have a witch hunt? there are few things i hate more, than twats who cant be named and shamed ITS SO SHIT! but the police have not arrested him?! hope kibas ok we're all sending our love.

Ohh noo that’s terrible I’m so sorry! I..wish there was more I could say beyond that, but honestly I’m just really really sorry, that should never have been a thing either of you should have had to deal with :c

Hope the restraining order comes in effect so you dont have to deal with this individual anymore. And i wish everything turns out ok for you both!

Holy crap, man. I hope she's okay. Well, going to be okay

My prayers go out to her, stay strong both of you.

Assholes like this are the reason why furries have such a bad rep in the general community. The populace at large tend to think of us as sexually-aggressive perverts, precisely because of actions like this, when we're actually decent folk. We finally get people to think we're somewhat normal, then shit like this happens. :/

Jesus! Hope that scumbag gets beaten with a metal baseball bat!

A big thank-you for keep us informed!

Hoping for the best results out of that mess <3

So glad she has you and family by her side during the recover process.

I'm so sorry to hear about what happened.

If I can give you advice though, as a first time homebuyer, be sure to get a realtor! I've been working in a real estate office and the amount of paperwork and crap that goes into buying a house is ridiculous (and guess who has to type it all up?) It also moves at glacial speeds, since a lot of it is legal paperwork and lawyer offices are never in a hurry.
Best of luck!

Shit, that's awful! I agree with the other comments, it's very valueable to have supportive people around in that moment. It sounds good what you do.

I wish I could do more than hope that the abuser will never show up again, and that Kapier can heal as well as is possible from the experience. <3 :( Take all the time you need!

My Gods! Totally not cool. Hope Kai is ok!

There is a special place in hell for the dude who sexually assaulted her.

I really hope that your mate will get well soon. Don't rush yourselves, as your safety is more important.

I hope the piece of shit who did this has the authorities throw the book at him. How could someone do that to another person? I hope Kabier can recover from what has happened and this can pass without much more heartache. My heart goes out to you both.

Can you disclose who it was so other people can be safe from them if they happen to pop up in another fandom or something?

Dear God, I'm very sorry to hear that this has happened to Kabier, she/he clearly needs a lot of care in a time like this. I hope the bastard who did this is brought to justice and made to pay for his crime. but despite this, I really do wish you two a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year, you both certainly could do with it right now.

I hope this perp is brought to justice. This is truly revolting, and sad to see. Unfortunately sexual assault is becoming a problem in today's society. I really hope kabier recovers from this horrible experience. Though while this is a serious situation, don't rush or rage yourselves. Safety is priority 1 here. Especially when dealing with such a perp. Please be safe, and journey carefully my friends.

I hope the guy, suffer by the weight of Justice, best of wishes to both, and hope Kabier, recover soon from this horrible event

omg
I'm so sorry to hear that.
I hope you'll both be ok. I know that sort of thing can be very traumatic.

Hugs to you and Kabier

So sorry to hear that :(

Long time lurker here. I wish you guys the very best of luck, and I hope you are able to move on to better things in the future.

Holy shit! I really hope that that person is brought to justice and that everything ends up OK for you 2! My deepest condolences to you both! *hugs*

Oh no, best wishes to you both, I know you are both going to have a rough time, but at least she has you there, that will help a lot.

This offender should count his lucky stars that this manhunt did not take place.

How many people would be in the angry mob, going after this individual? Twenty people minimum, I think? I am glad to see that we are not out to kill this person...as much of a mistake as this maneuver was, on his part.

Kabier...dammit. She is not shaken, is she? She strikes me as a tough gal, but I do not personally know her. I hope this does not weigh too heavily on her heart and mind.

This is directed toward the offender: Consent is key, mister horn-dog offender. Keep it in your freaking pants. It can be hard, but not in that way. Most unfortunate for you that you picked this route, however...but you did, mistakenly, made this choice. If you are reading this, just turn yourself in. You messed up; own up to your mistake.

Super sorry to hear this. :/ I hope everything goes well in the coming days and weeks. Send Kabier our regards!

Hope she is ok and makes a full good recovery from that

Jesus man, I’m sorry to hear :c Wishing all the best, and hope Kabier is doing alright

You both have all my well wishes. Be there for her. I'll be praying for you both.

Oh god, no. :'(

Oh no. That's beyond awful. You both have my support and prayers.

I can only offer prayers that everything is well for the two of you and that the offender gets the book thrown at them

How disgusting... I hope you two can get some peace of mind, and this attacker gets what he deserves. Take care, both of you.

Thats just so awful!! That is unforgivable and I hope he gets what he deserves and triple it! You are in my prayers and I really hope you can find peace again soon!

I can’t even think of words to begin on this. Its absolutely disgusting

Oh my God...O_O I hope she's alright and the scumbag is found and is dealt with accordingly.

My condolences to you and I hope the justice system does you two right.

Hope y'all turn out okay. My love goes to youse.

As someone who has been sexually assaulted on more than one occasion (lesser offenses), let me just say that I would never make a huge deal about it. Often times, the person committing the act is acting and responding via cues from the other person, and given that it's mostly committed by people you know, it's just an awkward process to shut it down. Given where I'm located, sexual assault is lesser to actual rape, and is many times simply something minor in comparison (it can be as small as randomly groping someone). It's not difficult to bounce back from it, but that doesn't mean that what they did was right either, especially in this case where she was in a committed relationship. Bringing down the hammer just shouldn't happen, though. Most of these offenders would never even consider actual rape, and simply are acting on impulse and attraction.

There is something certainly mentally wrong or stunted with this individual and I really hope they get therapy.

I know it's easiest to dismiss the differing opinions of someone else via insult, but I merely commented to add the perspective of someone who has gone through extremely similar circumstances. I wanted to add a layer of empathy to this 'not a witch hunt', where situations are far more complicated than a few lines of text and that while I think what the person did was wrong, I can't stand to see a cesspool of hatred form for a person when the entire story hasn't been told during the year of #metoo. And, just to put it out there, I don't feel like this is the best place to make something like this known. See: CuckShack Podcast - Kabier 52:33 for reference.

Wah? I wasn't insulting you, I'm saying that I hope the sexual assaulter gets therapy. Are you implying you have been the target of a sexual assault case?

The moment you are referring to in the first Cuckshack episode is talking about how Kabs was dumped at the airport with no intention of ever actually seeing her, forging the ticket. I don't see why that individual should be protected or empathized with. The only way we would share a full story of events is after court proceedings.

Glad to see someone actually strong throughout all of this. I can't blame people for utterly collapsing (I don't know how I'd handle the situation myself.) But it's comforting to know that there are people who can recover. Cheers to you.

its good she okay but try to get her emotional self up cause that stuff does damage it

Fuck........... O.O hope things progress safely your her an yourself as hate seeing bad things happen to good people

ouch. take your time coming back to this, verge, and pass the same to kabier for me.

Wow, that's terrible. I give you my well wishes

Sorry to hear, hopefully she will be better soon.

Take care of Kabier the best you can, and I hope this bastard gets what they deserve.

WTF??

You'd think folks would get the clue by now. No means NO MEANS NO!!!!!

I feel a need to dick-punch someone...

Unfortunatly, there's the sad reality that the people who commit these crimes are aware that no means no, it's that they don't care. A thief knows it's wrong to steal, and a murderer knows it's wrong to kill, but neither care. For one reason or another, they think they're above the law.

...I know, yet I still feel a need to dick-punch a certain individual...

Believe me, I understand greatly. I was... let's say personally involved with someone who was far worse. Lord knows if I had the power, he'd be lucky with a punch to the groin.

I've had run-ins with similar people, but with the experiences I've had in life I'm not willing to waste a felony conviction on such said assholes...misdemeanor maybe, but not felony grade revenge.

Plus, the concept of "Social Karma" does have impact.

Sexual assault can be something as menial as groping, and sometimes, as can be often the case at the early stages of a relationship, that a guy just 'goes for it' and sees what happens. When he's shut down, odds are that he'll stop and that will be the end of it. Could you imagine the beginning of a budding relationship between two teenagers that ended the night with 'is it okay to kiss you?', while at the same time girls say that they want guys to 'just go for it'. It's a complicated, complicated subject.

Sexual assault can range from menial to violent physical rape. This encounter was not between two teenagers and at no point was there any semblance of consent. Your encounter also heavily implies a hookup or relationship, neither of which were present here. This was an individual knowing full well that myself and kabs are in a long-term, closed relationship.

You really need to like, stop playing defendant for something some one did wrong. Especially in the case of where some one, was clearly not interested, in a long term, closed relationship. Got sexually went after, and so forth. This isn't one of those situations where two unsure eye people are starting an early relationship and unsure if they want to do hanky panky.

Hearts and prayers for Kabier!

I hope you two will be ok after such a traumatic event.
As for the offender, hopefully they will get what they deserve for such a disgusting and irredeemable act.
Hearts go out to you both.

I hope everything goes ok for you two! And I hope to see you guys soon! Glad you moved away from that shit and everyone is ok!

Oh gosh, I really hope you and her will be okay after such a thing! D:

I also hope the offender gets what he deserves for being such a pathetic waste of life...wait a minute. It was someone IN the community?!

Fuck. You hear so much about false cases that it's easy to forget it can actually happen... I am so sorry, man. I'm glad that you've been able to at least remedy the situation. I know you'll be a big part of Kabier's recovery.

Geeze, what the actual fuck?!
Hope you two find an awesome place soon and one that isn't a complete rip-off either.

Oh god, I do hope things return to normal for the both of you quick as can be-


My upmost best to the both of you all the same!

Wishes and love to you both, may the darkness of the actions move past and healing is starting very soon. love and wishes for you 2 to have things back to normal..... may love and happieness heal all scars all of us wish the best for you 2...... Sagera Cin Cynthest a norther sergal/synx

Give Kabs a hug for me, you two are amazing and I hate hearing bad things happening to people. (I'm also a hugger and think hugs can help with most emotional situations.)

I'm sorry that something so terrible happened. I will keep you guys in my thoughts and prayers. Please be safe.

I'm sorry that happened to you two. While at MFF I heard someone talking about how they -REALLY- dislike you guys and made various 'vague' comments about things happening to you two. I hope its not the same person.

This wasn't something that happened at MFF. Odds are it most definitely wasn't the same person.

I'd hope not. That would just be plain sick.

When and where this happened?

Well thats horrible.

JESUS H CHRIST!! SERIOUSLY?!!

Oh, I fuckin' hope this bastard gets arse-raped the next time
he even thinks of pullin' the same shit twice!

I'm terribly sorry that Kabier had to suffer through such an ordeal. Sorry for you both. My heart goes out to you both right now. I hope you both have a better 2018.

I Wish You Guys The Very Best And A Merry Christmas:)

Goodness... Send my best wishes to Kabier, I hope she can recover quickly!

Holy crap. Reading other comments, I'm glad it didn't get too far. Best wishes to you two, especially Kabier; something like this is hard for some people to deal with. It's a shame you don't have more incriminating evidence to get them thrown away. This kind of shit makes me sick.

That's just terrible! What is the world coming to?

I... am speechless.
This is some heavy news to take in... finding this out in a journal like this almost shocked me and I can only dare to think what you two must have been through... and although I feel helpless behind a PC screen in a country far away and words alone may seem useless, I sincerely wish to comfort you and Kabier, to be strong and overcome what happened...

My thoughts and prays are with you both i hope the person gets whats coming to them

Glad to hear you both at least handled this properly. I hope to see her recover, and move on from this.

Oh god, sorry to hear about this, hope your safe right now

I can only hope it was the bare minimum of what classifies as sexual assualt (over the clothes, like grabbing).

Honestly, I would've broke his spine. And legs. And jaw. And likely gone full Mr Blonde on him, tie him to a chair and shit... I'm heavily against pricks like this. It fucks a person up. So I really am hoping it wasn't a severe attack and that she can move on in time.

Anything more and I'll need this guy's address and a crowbar... Kabs might not be a violent person, but I'm all for breaking his bones.

damn man that blows, there are some sick ass people out there

Oh my god! I am so sorry to hear that!
Stay strong!! And only a restraint order? That's all you can do against him?

Absolutely disgusting, I hope Kabier isn't hurt

Words can't describe how I feel about the perpetrator . . .

All I can say though is that I hope you two find peace. Please take the time you two need to heal in this time.

I'm so sorry to hear that bud i really hope Kab is doing ok if you all need anything message me and i'll try to help you both out the best i can don't hesitate okay,

If that was my friend victimized in this situation, I would condone all the stalking, harassment, doxing, and death threats towards that person to the point where I would be willing to go to jail for first degree murder. But you and your friend took the merciful approach to this horrible situation. Please give kabier my condolences and be there to comfort him in this time of need. He'll need all the comfort and help he can get at this point. Even give him a Shiba Inu puppy to help him out.

This is what the baseball bat to the nuts defense was made for. Hopefully said persons name makes it around so he/she/it is NOT welcomed at any social events. let them have a great time sitting at home pity party playing with themselves. Hopefully you will have a safe easy move and several days of fun and recovery at FE. Please let me know if we can do anything for you alright?.

Gaia bless
Pakesh_De
Snoofy old burr

Oh dear gods I'm so sorry that happened! It hasn't happened to me myself, but I do have a family member who was a few years ago, I've seen just how devastating it can be... My prayers go out to you both, hope everything gets better <3

i hope they land in jail, thats just disturbing and im sorry it happened to you guys. i hope it wasnt too bad...

That's horrible. I'm sorry that happened. Until then, please know we're all here for you two. I haven't been this mad since last week because someone, who was arrested soon after, wrote a racial slur on my friend's door on campus.

I remember someone mentioning that name at howl around a month ago, I wonder if that's the same person?

I'm so sorry to hear... :( Sending love <3

oh god, hope she's ok and be as supportive and loving as you've ever been.

Jesus. I'm sorry for your troubles. Wish that there was something I could do to help, and obviously that the bastard gets his just deserts.

That is horrifying for anyone to go through

Fuck man that sucks. Best of wishes to both you and Kabier.

Jeez... I really hope Kabier is alright.

Please tell her we all love her.

come to sweden its fucking cold here but we have snow XD

That is fucked up. Best wishes to you both, and I hope that person gets what they deserve.

I went through a sexual assault, it was one of the most traumatic events I went through, I hope they recover and don't become too damaged from this. Be strong!

Support being sent all the way around the world! It's definitely the most apparent thing to face and be sexually assaulted at any sort of situation at any time of a year.

Absolutely sickening. I hope she is okay! When karma comes around on that idiot it will be an epic catastrophe with gale force winds.

Okay

That bastard! I hope they locked that scum behind a set of iron bars!

I’m terribly sorry that this happened and you both have my best wishes!

Really hope you and her are alright and things didn't get that far with whatever this person has done to her. Hopefully things go well in court and this all gets sorted and if the individual is found guilty of their actions the correct course of justice is administered.

Wow. I'm deeply sorry to hear. Apologies for such a late reply as I didn't mean to dig this up, but I hope you and Kabi are okay, and safe.

Haha i don't know if this was true or not but you made my day ha ha ha ha.