How to kiss?
So I’m a (M17) and I have never kissed anyone before and I was just thinking how to actually do it properly. Any tips are welcome. Thank you!
close your eyes.
mind your teeth.
Don't say "momma" no matter what.
Don't go overboard with the chapstick.
Don't hold on if she starts to back away.
Drink lots of water so your lips aren’t crusty. You could wear chapstick but very lightly; chapstick feels gross and makes the kiss more wet if you overdo it.
Close your eyes as you lean in. (Don’t close your eyes before leaning in, because you don’t want to bonk noses!)
Lean in at an angle, and kiss with your lips parted. Not puckered/squeezed tightly together, just parted a little. Capture her lips with yours, then go with whatever she does.
It’s not that hard, and you shouldn’t feel nervous about it. Once it’s done, you’ll be better prepared for the next one. Just relax, it’ll be great :)
relax the lips, dont pucker, find a rhythm with her, and enjoy! bring tongue in when you're more exerienced
It’s all about figuring out what your partner likes. Not everyone is the same kisser so pay attention to what she does and try and replicate that
Don't use too much tongue (if any at all) the first time, and PLEASE MAKE SURE YOUR BREATH IS FRESH. My first kiss was with a guy who had fish breath, and it was utterly disgusting. She (or he) will greatly appreciate a hygienic mouth.
I thought it was going to be awfully awkward and uncomfortable for me because I Didn’t know how to do it but once your lips touch you kind of find your own rhythm and it’s just natural. Involving tongue is waaayyyy easier and less gross than I ever thought it would be, but maybe I just have had some not sloppy partners
Don't use your tongue right away or try to devour her soul, just keep it light and playful and sensual. You can literally practice this on the back of your hand or wherever. Slowly introduce a little tongue action but always keep it sensual and playful.
You’re probably best to find an experienced kisser, be honest with them that you aren’t sure how to kiss properly, and ask them to teach you!
It’s basically what you’d think, except make your lips softer and try to kind of mirror each other? You get the hang of it. It’s not something you really have to practice. It just gets hyped up.
Think of it like punching someone in the face, but gently and with lips.
My wife adds this practical instruction: lips to lips; dont donk noses.
It's all about communing with your partner. A gentle touch lips to lips, relaxed. Negotiate with their responses. If their lips relax, relax yours, if their lips part, part yours.
Don't force it. Don't press hard.
Do think about the kiss itself, not what you want after.
A gentle hand to the cheek will prevent nose bumping.
Be careful of braces locking together.
I think the best kisses start small and gradually build with intensity
So starting with simple pecks on the lips, introducing a little tongue (relaxed! Not tense or pokey) Try to match what your partner is doing,you'll find a rhythm of some sort
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