Finally got therapy

Moved cities to be with long distance boyfriend. Bought a home. Got a new job. But I’ve been sinking deeper and deeper into sadness and isolation. My boyfriend works full time from the home I bought us but we never go out anymore and he says that it’s hard to be attracted to a person who is depressed all the time. It’s really hard to find the motivation to do anything. And I end up doing the chores in addition to cooking and commuting an hour and a half each way to help him break into the industry he’s hoping to. We have almost no sex life now and we’ve been going to couples therapy for over 6 months and nothing changes. Finally I go to an individual therapist and she’s expensive AF but she says that my emotions and sadness are normal and that my boyfriend doesn’t have the same level of commitment I do. And I need to really evaluate the relationship and do what’s best for me. Only. If I break up with him he’s homeless and doesn’t have a workshop anymore. I’m wracked with guilt and heartbroken at the same time. She says that I’m having to send away someone I love. But that the relationship is not healthy for me.