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I can agree with that. It's frustrating to see someone say hateful stuff and own it. And I'm conflicted, here, because the same person in question has also been so supportive of other minorities and even granted me a personal kindness without my asking. It's right to hold ppl...

...accountable for what they do or say, but at what point does the constant pressure one flaw make us blind to the good? It's a moral question I have to ask myself every day, and there's no easy answer. Sometimes a corrective action can do more harm than it fixes.

wow, no. look, I’m sorry, I was entirely with you up until the “one flaw” thing. If someone hates Muslims, I don’t care what other good they’re doing or what other groups they might not hate, the hate they do harbor is still wholly reprehensible

Like... hatred for an entire ethnic group is not “one little flaw”

I get the impression that the majority of furries are willing to forgive her because she’s reformed on the transphobia, and decide that the islamophobia just doesn’t matter because by demographics vastly more furries are trans than Muslim. And to me that is selfish

Don't take me the wrong way. I moved into a general means of speaking but I didn't know how to say that within the character constraints. I meant the fandoms takes on small personal issues in general.

you’re good, the clarification is def appreciated, I was misreading that to apply to the individual case. And I can readily admit that it’s on me that I get so bothered about one little person doing something shitty, when there are bigger issues to deal with

What I’m most upset about is the overall trend in furry, where people escape responsibility by hopping accounts and hoping everyone just forgets. Maybe focusing on an individual case is a bad way of addressing it, but I’m really not sure how else to address it