Support me, I’m “crazy girl number 4” Don’t you think that if four women, including three that have been long time partners tell you the same story of mental abuse that maybe the person they were dating IS ACTUALLY ABUSIVE?!? Just my last two cents I’m having about this topic
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I like to think in times like this, the friends who really matter wont fall for his bs. But thats just me.
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I agree with friends not necessarily having to leave someone but trying to help and standing by their side BUT not by supporting and enabling bad behavior. And if you see that someone isn’t going to take your advice or doesn’t try to change then I think it is reason to distance
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You sound like the smarter person. I'm sure you'll lead a much more fulfilling life than him, especially if that's how he treats his partners.
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I did try to work with him and even offered to take him to my therapist but he didn’t want to. You can only try. All in all I’m much happier now and shouldn’t have waited it out for so long.
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Everyone matures at their own rate. Some I wonder if they will ever mature to a point of knowing what empathy is and feels like, but you tried your best and don't worry about that, we all wait in toxic environments too long. But it's very hard to see it when it's happening to you
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I'm just glad to hear you're out of it and moving on. I see to many friends stuck in a rut with bad partners, and there's no telling them they need to get out. So you should be proud to have come to this conclusion at all really :P
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I have proof that my ex abused me when I was a minor but he still managed to turn a bunch of people against me... it helps when they’re manipulative, and have things that people want, like art, money, or popularity. I’m happy that you’re in a better place
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Thanks for the support and I’m incredibly sorry about what happened to you. I really think society has reached a point where it’s acceptance for things like this has vanished and I’m glad that’s the case. This fandom is a little behind sadly but I feel like things are import
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This really hits home a relative also endured an absuvie relationship and had to deal with people calling her crazy etc. I 1000% stands with you there
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It’s a very common phenomenon especially with female since the early days. Often the woman gets the blame and people just role with it
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when we first met i just got out of a similar situation of a over controlling manipulative and dangerous bf, red was the one who pulled me out of it and opened my eyes to a lot of things that were wrong i always tell people to listen to their friends cuz they can save your life
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I’m sorry you went trough that and that Red treats you the way you deserve. Things were definitely complicated because of the financial and emotional dependency too. I think things would’ve been different if I had my parents or friends around back then to have my back.
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Fuck em. We all know the truth Dear. Why would 4 seperate people claim such things if it were false? What gain is there? "To ruin his reputation!1!!1" He's doing a fine job of that on his own. You don't need or deserve that negativity in your life.
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Thank you so much Mog
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Any time Hun
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Cyndi I'm 1000% behind you. Gonna keep fighting the haters and sending our fighters after that guy's ass. Not only because you deserve to live in peace, but because I never want to see him do this to another woman.
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*hugs tight*
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Cyndi don't let people get you down alright? Some people will always be against you, or something like that. It gets better. You just have to not let their BS drag you down.
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