Bang Yongmeong

Maybe don't just rely on foreigners when local people are actually fully concerned about your actual wellbeing. How do you suppose we can help if you keep dodging any help that aren't done by anyone outside this godfosaken country? And you wonder why we are being suspicious?

It's always safer being skeptical and wary of those who offer help when theyre in a country of an anti-LGBT popular opinion. It's just understandable when you're living in fear.

right. because foreigners can immediately jump to help like medical assistants, advocations, getting him into safe-houses, etc. Wow, why it never crosses my mind!!

obviously people from the west are going to be more tolerant than the majority of the people in a country like that. take it from someone who has lived in a largely anti-LGBT country, it's better safe than sorry. strangers from the West > strangers from an intolerant country

You are missing my point. Well done. Give yourself a pat on your back. And as for someone who has lived in largely anti-LGBT country, surprise!! I am living in one too!! I know damn well here in Indonesia, support groups for LGBTQ+ do exist and they are good in doing their job.

Except all I'm saying is that it's good to be wary of strangers for your safety, not specifically LGBT organizations but literally random people. When you're living in immense fear and paranoia you want to trust people who have a higher chance of tolerating you.

and those are local LGBTQ+ organizations not one of those who will tolerate and helpful to the case? They did reach out, you know.

sighhh youre clearly missing my point over and over again, the reason they sought help from the West rather than their own country is because they knew people in the West have a higher chance of being tolerant. That's that, it's understandable fear.