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Date, or nah? by nonegativenancy in japan

[–]nonegativenancy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I'm remembering from my friend right, he's in his mid-30s (I'm in my late 20s).

Date, or nah? by nonegativenancy in japan

[–]nonegativenancy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woah. I never knew people dug that far into reddit history! Dang. (Also not sure where they got overweight or salaryman from, but to each their own)

Date, or nah? by nonegativenancy in japan

[–]nonegativenancy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I understand that. I'm pretty sure it wasn't planned out, it just went a lot more date-y than I expected (paying for things + ferris wheel rides).

I tried to max out my Charm so we'll see how the next one goes!

Date, or nah? by nonegativenancy in japan

[–]nonegativenancy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahah, it's true you may be on to something. I met him because our hobby is cosplay; I met a girl at an event, and we talked about characters we liked. She showed me her friend (who was dressed as my absolute favorite), I gushed a but about how handsome he was.

I made a cosplay of that character's wife (a bit obvious, I know, I like the guy), the three of us planned to meet, but... She dropped out a week before the event. Just the two of us were at the theme park together, dressed as a fictional couple doing coupley things.

Did she set it up?? I'd be amazed but I'll never know, haha.

Date, or nah? by nonegativenancy in japan

[–]nonegativenancy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 99% sure he's not, since he lives alone in an apartment in Tokyo.

Date, or nah? by nonegativenancy in japan

[–]nonegativenancy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the input!

This may seem like an odd question, but what fo Japanese guys think on less long-term/serious relationships? I like him very much, but I will only be in Japan another year at most (he knows this). I'd like to have fun together while we can, but I don't know if Japanese culture is strictly serious dating or friends, no in between.

Date, or nah? by nonegativenancy in japan

[–]nonegativenancy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, which is what made me wonder about it. It was also our first time meeting in person though, haha. A handshake at the end only... :P (He seemed uncertain how to end it, and went with that, it was a bit funny)

I'll see how it goes next time we meet.

Date, or nah? by nonegativenancy in japan

[–]nonegativenancy[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm hoping I'm right, I'm super into him. He just seems way out of my league! Definitely will be asking him to hang out again soon.

Date, or nah? by nonegativenancy in japan

[–]nonegativenancy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's funny, because I know at least part of it wasn't planned, since we stood around for 40 minutes waiting for a group (who ended up doing their own thing) and he seemed genuinely awkward about it. Maybe it was an elaborate ruse? I can hope, haha.

I'll be headed back to Tokyo in a few weeks, so maybe I'll balls up and ask him if he'd like to hang at a themed bar I know.

I own a pet that got popular on social media. What's a press agency & is it a scam? by nonegativenancy in legaladvice

[–]nonegativenancy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any idea how to get in contact with agents...? I googled around, but, uh, animal representation is a bit harder to find, haha.

I own a pet that got popular on social media. What's a press agency & is it a scam? by nonegativenancy in legaladvice

[–]nonegativenancy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually live in Japan right now, though I'm originally from PA.

My pet does art, so more exposure might mean more sales of that, which is cool. I guess I'm just trying to make sure that I won't lose anything by agreeing they can use images (from my FB, twitter, and Instagram). Again, exposure IS definitely good, I just want to make sure it's not something people are usually paid for... I'm new to this, and don't want to be taken for a ride due to inexperience.

Parents of Reddit, how do I [41M] deal with my inappropriate stepdaughter [18F] following her mother's death? by stepfatherinquestion in relationships

[–]nonegativenancy 150 points151 points  (0 children)

Why do you post this fake story every few months or so? I've seen this copy-pasted at least once before.

My boyfriend [m 18] says I [f 16] should lose weight, although I am very healthy? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]nonegativenancy 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The way he reacted to her being upset is worse than what he said.

My [19F] boyfriend [23M] wants me to stop watching/reading a certain kind of porn by freethrowawayfor2 in relationships

[–]nonegativenancy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Read her other replies. This is more about this dude finding things weird and uncool.

My [19F] boyfriend [23M] wants me to stop watching/reading a certain kind of porn by freethrowawayfor2 in relationships

[–]nonegativenancy 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He sounds way insecure, and worried about what others think.

Buy all the anime figs you want, girl. I have a shelf full of my favorites, it's harmless and fun. I guess just think about if you want to be with someone who's embarrassed by you being yourself.

Me [19F] & BF [21M] refusing to Babysit. by Vroniekins07 in relationships

[–]nonegativenancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me, it just seems too early. He's only four. I'm sure it's crossed her mind for the future, and doesn't need to be brought up now.

That's like getting a dog and someone going "How will you feel when you have to put it down?"