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Title says it all. Even after having received red pill wisdom, I'm sure some of us—myself included—get weak from time to time and begin to entertain thoughts of a happily ever after with that one special woman. Here's your daily warning against that.

She informs me that she was still having sex with Bob as early as 6 months after we got married, that he would just show up on her lunch breaks, or after work, and they'd go get a motel, or go to his place.

She says she was "lost" and that looking back it was all a " mistake" and that she now realizes she killed our sex life, not me. ...

By my math her ex husband had sex with my wife 48 times a year, for 20 years, while I got told to be patient.

I told her if she get's in an accident and needs help to just pull the plug, that I'd jump in a volcano before ever helping her again with ANYTHING, she looked at me as if I had betrayed her.

So now I'm back to being 12 again and wondering if anything I know is real. I just can't understand how she can be that way, hide it all these years so well, act like I'm the bad guy, then it turns out she was cheating on me all along, this whole time.

On top of that, my new HL GF, that seems awesome, when I told her about all of this, she informs me that she also has a proclivity for finding random men from time to time and that "it's just sex!" and now I don't find her attractive anymore either.

Goddamnit.

And later in the thread he describes he moment when he independently discovers alpha fucks beta bucks:

So I'm thinking my wife was a lower-medium libido person, who wasn't attracted to me, because I had my stuff together, but her ex was attractive to her, but was unable to raise her kids.

She used me to raise her kids, and used him for sex. ...

At one point I asked if the sex was bad, she said "oh no, you're much better than Bob is." and I asked "So then why did you choose to have sex with him and not me." She says "He's the father of my children, you're my lover..." Ouch. She'll take bad sex with the "Father" over great sex with the "person raising the kids." just messed up.

I was harsh on this guy elsewhere since I consider it truly stupid to raise another man's kids outside of adoption, but I had to remind myself that we all have trouble eradicating blue-pill conditioning from our systems. Fortunately, it looks like he's finally catching on:

How can I expect truth when all of these women (I've dated) seem dishonest to the core?

And I'm fully on board with being single, in fact, I might just be done trying for good. ...

I think if I meet a girl, in the future, the first time she says no to sex I'll just dump her and move on, that way I don't have to play all these political sex power games.

But I know that's not realistic.

Damn, he's so close! But even so, that's the beauty of MGTOW. We don't have to advertise or evangelize. Men who go through the wringer come to these conclusions on their own.

Moral of the story: Never trust a woman enough to marry her. Stay strong, gentlemen.