•
•

MGTOW advice needed! (self.MGTOW)

CrazyHume が 投稿

The age old dillema when your roommate gets a girlfriend and she is over at your place all the time. Dont get me wrong I dont dislike the girl, I even enjoy here being at ours sometimes, but she sometimes is there 5 a 7 days in a row, and sometimes she is there when my roommate is away (not for 20 min but for a couple of hours). What would you MGTOW guys do? My solution is just to accept it and try to move on to live on my own as fast a I can (go my own way), but that might take some time. Any advice will be appreciated. (Note that I really consider my room mate as a close friend, and complaining about the situation makes me feel like a whinner.)

全 4 件のコメント
並べ替え:
ベスト (提案されたアイデア)
トップ新着論争中古い順Q&A

[–]RedFoxOnFire 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

If, and I mean "if" you can stomach her, then have her move in so you can split the bills three ways.

If you choose to go this route, be sure to set boundaries.

"This is my bathroom, there are many like it but this one is mine. You will not feminize my bathroom."

[–]DangZagnut 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

You can talk to your roommate and say that she's using up resources, so she needs to start contributing. That can be as simple as cleaning, cooking, housework, or plain cash. Or the roommate can contribute more.

Other than that, I'd ignore her. Go your own way, spend your days doing what you want, and if she interferes with that, then you have to address it.

[–]gods_bones 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Are you both splitting bills for the place? If so, then talk to him privately and tell him that you need to come up with a new way to divide the bills because 50/50 is not going to cut it anymore when there are 3 people using up the resources. Tell him you would be fine with it if he wants to increase his payment of the bills to 66% to cover her share if she does not want to pay out of her own pocket. Make sure you tell him this when she is not in the apartment.

If he argues, or if he agrees and then tells her and she argues, tell him that you would be happy to install a meter in your room to measure your own electricity usage, but gas and water will have to be figured out by them because there is no way to account for their use. If you choose to buy a meter for your room, unfortunately you're going to have to limit your usage of common rooms such as kitchen and living room and stay mostly in your bedroom.

If neither of those work, the only other solution would be to stop paying the bills and move out. Make sure you remove your name from the bill address, otherwise it will affect your credit rating.

[–]OctoEnthusiast 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Get your own place.