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Children Comments in Abundance within /r/Choosingbeggars when a Single Mother Argues About Why There's a Lacking of Father Figures to Date (self.SubredditDrama)

LaFemmeMacabreDomination is inherently nonconsensual. が 投稿

If guys weren't so snotty about dating single moms, there would be much fewer single moms around. Just sayin'

You seem very angry. As a single dad raising my twin sons, I would not date someone that angry.

I can understand if a woman wants to experience pregnancy herself and not adopt. But really the man's sole function is to RAISE THE KID RIGHT. What does it matter if it's his blood or not? ...the fuck?

I used donors and had children on my own because guys now days are children themselves and don't want to be real men that take care of someone besides themselves....then laments about said donors not stepping up as fathers...:

I really am not complaining about my 'baby daddys' because in the long run they saved me money. It's just a bit sad to me that, despite given the opportunity, they don't give a flying fuck about their kids....I'm confused...

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[–]aussielander 24 ポイント25 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Couple of guys I know have taken up with single mothers. Its high risk for the guys because after playing dad for several years once the relationship breaks down they lose contact with the kids they have raised.

[–]House_Bitch 9 ポイント10 ポイント  (0子コメント)

That's why you're referred to as Uncle aussielander.

But I agree it's disruptive to the children to constantly have father figures popping in and out.

[–]SydneyBro 38 ポイント39 ポイント  (9子コメント)

I hate everyone involved in this drama tbh.

Her ridiculous entitlement vs their stupid biotruths.

[–]HumanKapital_ 12 ポイント13 ポイント  (3子コメント)

In every argument we always look for who is good and who is bad. Sometimes both sides suck and the good guys are the people who stay out of it

[–]salamander423 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Then what does that make us on SRD?

[–]chirpingphoenixNaOH+HCl->DHMO+SRD 11 ポイント12 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Smug assholes who are superior to both

[–]the_undine 6 ポイント7 ポイント  (3子コメント)

Standards don't equate to entitlement. People usually find their children pretty important.

[–]jerkstorefranchisee 6 ポイント7 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Yeah I don't see anything that terrible about this. Is she supposed to not disclose that she's pregnant and drop that bomb on the first date?

[–]SydneyBro 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Oh the original girl the thread is about is fine.

She comes off glowingly compared to the people discussing her.

[–]SydneyBro 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

People usually find their own children important.

The entitlement is her expectation that other people should feel the same way.

[–]Loimographia 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

The Buzzardry dude seems both compassionate and moderate on the debate -- I'll take his side

[–][deleted] 7 ポイント8 ポイント  (2子コメント)

This seems like a troll.

[–]LaFemmeMacabreDomination is inherently nonconsensual.[S] 10 ポイント11 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I dunno...her post history seems pretty normal and well-rounded until this subject comes up, to which she then loses her ability to be objective about said subject whenever it comes up.

[–]spritzducorpse 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Nah, scan the submission history. Has been sharing pics from her kids and talking about dating problems for a long long time.

She even shares some of the incidents that may have bittered her to this point.

[–]TheIronMarkStupid Police 19 ポイント20 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Yes, yes, it's her children that are the reason she can't find a partner. Not her toxic misandry, but the fact that she's a single mother. Sure, let's go with that.

Hope her kids aren't boys

[–]HumanKapital_ 11 ポイント12 ポイント  (0子コメント)

As fucked up as it sounds dating is like a balance sheet and having kids goes in the complication part. She might not be able to date guys she wants too. As a single 34 year with no kids I don't want to date someone who has kids. I have turned down single mothers because they have kids.

[–]LaFemmeMacabreDomination is inherently nonconsensual.[S] 14 ポイント15 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Someone said this earlier:

I'm not trying to tell people what their preferences should be

except that you are. just another bitter person blaming everyone else...also, lol "donors"

Pretty on point; kinda reminds me of those "exceptionally"-minded people who think gay men are bigoted because they won't sleep with women...because only YOUR preferences should matter and no one else's, right lady? -_-

[–]trollly 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Woman in the OP:

Men these days don't take care of their children and society doesn't condemn them enough for it.

Also woman in the OP:

I intentionally let some random losers I knew to be deadbeats cum in me for the sole purpose of getting pregnant three times.

Call me old fashioned, but I think that's pretty fucked up.

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[–]JNC96I'm just here for the popcorn[🍰] 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

You're not going to shame me into throwing decades of my life away doing what I don't want to do.

That's how I feel about settling/marriage/kids. If me doing my own thing bothers you, oh well, I'm nowhere near as concerned with you as you are with me.

[–]Throwtendo 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

See the problem really is that she wants all those things in a guy that just looks like the usual douchbags she dates. She's gotta settle at some point too.

[–]POGtastic 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Quoting her post:

But it's like finding fucking Bigfoot. You hear tales about such men. You might see a blurry photo of someone who claims to have seen one. After 10 years, I have yet to come across one in the wild.

Because some other woman got there first, put a ring on it, and started a family.

In my experience, the best men - the guys who actually check off every single one of the boxes in the Unrealistic Expectations checklist that she has - all got married in their mid-twenties to women they met at age 19-21. They are not eligible for very long.