In the last few months I have been a member of a gaming community that works towards achieving a common goal: Progress in content.
Now we were making pretty good headway but then.... the worst happened. 1 of them got married, 1 of them "found love", others use their marriage as a reason theyre not playing.
This has lead to a month or two worth of having to rebuild the group to get to the level we were once at. And I have a theory on this and need to know if it is infact law.
When a man has an avenue of enjoyment that is not a woman's presence, woman if theyre married attempt to take that place or men who arent married that are friends of their husbands remove that friend from their husbands social circle. And I believe this is because woman want to control a mans emotions no matter what emotions the woman is going through. THEY want to be the source of a mans enjoyment 24/7. They also dont want men having avenues of escape from their(womans) emotional turmoil such that the woman has to responsibly deal with their emotional issues themselves. They want to gather enough excuse tokens to blame their emotional issues on the man and in so removing these avenues from their man, they can greater facilitate this.
It is also my understanding that if a woman TRULY loves you(is a NAWALT) they will be able to put aside their distaste in their man's hobbies and actually embrace their hobbies. In this case, play the games with them instead of expecting their husband/bf/fiance to NOT game anymore.
Am I not completely or partially off-base here?
ここには何もないようです