XMFC Modern AU pt 6
(PS: A special shout out to endingthemes for writing this amazing fic inspired by these silly things <333)
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I definitely definitely wrote the #MagnetoIsRight check list
XMFC Modern AU pt 6
(PS: A special shout out to endingthemes for writing this amazing fic inspired by these silly things <333)
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I definitely definitely wrote the #MagnetoIsRight check list
If a neurotypical asks you, “What game are you playing?” they’re not asking you to describe the game.
They’re asking you if they can play too.
If a neurotypical asks you, “What are you watching?” they’re not asking you to explain the plot of the movie/tv show to them.
They’re asking if they can watch it with you.
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When neurotypicals ask you “What are you doing?”
Now here’s the really fucked up part. If you start explaining to them what you’re doing? They will interpret that as a rejection.
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This is why neurotypicals think you’re being cold and antisocial.
IT’S ALL A HORRIBLE MISCOMMUNICATION.
I didn’t realize, even thought it took me almost three decades to learn this, that this was such a paradigm changing realization until we had our conversation today.
But it really really is. One of the most bewildering realizations I’ve had is most people don’t talk to learn things unless its related to work or directly towards their own hobbies, all the words and questions are bonding questions if done socially. They are “lets make friends” questions.
So if I answer their question without an opportunity for the person asking the question to give a response or to join in somehow, the asker feels alienated and starts shutting down.
Example: what are you reading?
True answer but not what they’re looking for: Title of book
Best answer for social scenarios where I want to retain/create friendship: This book is about x and y but it has z that i know u have an interest in too.
Example: what are you doing?
True answer but not: drawing
Best answer for friends: I’m drawing but would u like company while I’m working?
And sometimes frankly I’m not in a headspace where I can process people so the answer is something like, “I would like to do something in a day or later, do you want to plan something?”
Tldr: communication is wierd
HOLY
SHIT
that explains so fucking much thank you
(why the fuck do neurotypicals never just day what they mean ie hey this show looks cool mind if I join you)
Further annoying?
They don’t realize that’s what they’re asking and they just feel rejected and go away. So you can’t even ask them what you did wrong because they can’t even put a finger on why they feel the way they do they just know you made them feel bad for some undefined reason.
What’s messed up about this is that we are the ones that communicate explicitly and simply and are pathologized for it, while allistics literally expect us to READ THEIR FUCKING MINDS and that’s normal? How even is that reasonable? How is it we are the ones that society thinks are mentally ill?
Uhg.
Just so… for those of you who have to hide your autism, this is a great thing to keep in mind.
Holy shit
The actual world cannot be distinguished from a world of imagination by any description. Hence the need of pronoun and indices, and the more complicated the subject the greater the need of them.
soon the only hope i will have left about the future is that i might successfully be killed by my own creation in the third act of my life
I was just reading a blog post by Will Creeley about the recent revocations of Harvard admission offers. I don’t care very much about the main subject of the post, but:
Having spent the last decade defending student and faculty rights, I’ve learned a couple of things about exactly what type of campus civil liberties violations receive the most media attention. It’s not always what one might expect.
For example, I remember feeling shocked that a student’s expulsion over a Facebook post protesting the construction of a parking garage didn’t warrant above-the-fold coverage. I was amazed that students blacklisted for complaining to administrators about being subjected to mandatory transvaginal ultrasounds, performed by their peers, somehow didn’t go viral and make its way onto every social media timeline in the country. And my colleague Samantha Harris just penned a powerful piece for Vox about the relative media silence regarding Princeton University Professor Keeanga-Yamahtta Taylor, who has received death threats and been forced to cancel appearances following her Hampshire College commencement address last month.
All of that actually happened, and as far as I can tell, Creeley is not exaggerating or misrepresenting any of it. Yet I have never heard about the parking garage case or the transvaginal ultrasound case. What the fuck?
Admittedly, the parking garage expulsion happened in 2007, but the ensuing litigation went on until 2015.
I think clearly what’s going on is that anything to do with Harvard is going to get more attention than even the most outrageous abuses at Valencia College. But yeah, everyone should read The FIRE for campus free speech cases if you want to hear about all of them and not a weird atypical subset.
God colleges in the US are so fucking bonkers. The way they exploded into these residential micro-government products, probably following these absurd late-fukuyamaist attempts at the equality of access to the middle class like the FAFSA, created so many fascinating social & economic questions so fast that no one can possibly have time to model and understand really anything that’s going on. I can’t wait till it’s like 2030 and it’s several years after whatevers equivalent to “hyperinflation” in the metacurrency called “accreditation” has its catastrophe then we’ll finally understand what the fuck is going on lol
every year seemingly on the dot there’s an article about this, and to your average New Yorker who reads the news this is probably your only ‘negative’ article about the Hamptons. And like, yeah, this shit is annoying, people will fly really fucking low in secluded areas and if you live on the flight path you might get like 40 helicopters a day, but honestly?
This is no where near the biggest issue the Hamptons faces. Not even close. But it’s an issue that gets hits because it lets us laugh at an issue that’s mostly millionaires vs billionaires because in the popular imagination those are the only people who live in the Hamptons. More on that in a second but here are some of the issues that your average person faces and sees.
50 people died in the Hamptons from opiod abuse last year. That might not seem like a lot but in towns where the year-round population numbers in the hundreds its huge, and it grew by 70% last year. I had this conversation with a friend a year back about this, about how if you stay in the Hamptons there’s this point you get to where everyone you know knows someone who died either because of drugs or because of alcohol.
Homelessness is a pervasive issue in the east end too, and it’s an issue that’s gotten infinitely worse with the arrival of AirBNB. Montauk in particular is awful about this; rent goes from around 800 a month for a room to more than a thousand a week (or a day) during the summer, and, and this is just a fun anecdote, but there’s an abandoned army base in Montauk that was the inspiration for the army base in Stranger Things, and it’s basically a shanty town during the summer for people who are just working as waiters and taxi drivers but who can’t afford close to a room there. In general cost of living is high as hell, you might be able to snag a 15$ an hour job if you’re lucky but if you’re not then lunch still goes for twelve at least and nearly all the retail space in any village is dedicated to shit that you could never possibly afford.
The rampant increase in housing prices has also priced out historic black communities in the Hamptons which gets to another issue which is the brutal and pervasive segregation the region faces. It’s even getting to the point where a NYC style private-public schooling system is de facto in place which drains funding from Latino, African American, and Native American majority districts as the rich white kids go to a pseudo-private school. The Latino and black communities exist basically outside of the dominant white communities and neighboring Hampton Bays (which is or is not in the Hamptons depending on who you ask) has the largest KKK chapter in the United States.
This isn’t even getting into the issues with public transit, the issues with environmental degradation, suicide rates, etc. These issues, of drug addiction, pervasive poverty, racism, hopelessness, they’re, like, none of it will probably sound new to you. They’re issues in nearly every rural community in the United States. But, even though the Hamptons are a mere 100 miles away from NYC and gets more media attention than your average town in New Mexico or Indiana or Montana, these issues are hardly ever talked about in the context of the Hamptons. Two years ago if you were looking for a mass media depiction of poverty in the Hamptons you had like two or three articles to go on, tops.
What gets me about the pervasiveness of these “oh these stupid rich people and their rich people problems” articles seem to me to be like the horrifying end phase of the hyper-gentrification of the Hamptons. A town becomes a target for rich summergoers, it becomes known as a resort town, and gradually the poor people (who live everywhere, who work everywhere) fade from view and disappear from the public image. They become the subaltern of their own home, known only under the signifier of ‘local’, as hillbillies with hick accents. Their history is forgotten as their past becomes similarly owned by the people who own their house, who own their labor (seriously before the Eastville Historical society was formed in the 1980s the history of the Hamptons working class which was a beautiful combination of Irish and East European immigrants, Native Americans, and freed slaves was nearly entirely forgotten). The changes the region needs are radical but they are not even thinkable because the only constituency we can imagine are the millionaires who’s problems amount to a guy driving over their house in a helicopter once or twice a day.
That’s why, beyond the fact that I lived there for nearly 16 years, the Hamptons are important to me. Because it’s the end of the line for where our economic model goes. Because it goes along the line where gentrification crosses into colonization.
If I was a supervillain trying to make functionalism and composition and math counter-intuitive I could not design a better language than Java
i’ve heard several definitions of postcyberpunk and they are
I’ve always assumed it meant the second, but yeah, Last Night is really bringing into focus how the load-bearing themes and ideology of the cyberpunk genre are drowned out by aesthetics, and how completely ambiguous Post-Cyberpunk is as a concept?
Otoh though, there’s this idea that capitalism takes any form of counterculture that forms within it and eventually wraps it up and sells it back you? And I feel like I’m watching it in real time, between this and the gits remake. So I guess the real cyberpunk was the dystopia we made along the way :P
Post Cyberpunk is what happens when Cyberpunk doesn’t end in destruction, or the singularity, but rather just continues until everyone gets tragically bored of it. Transmet is a perfect example. It’s all Cyberpunk, and no one cares. It’s got aliens, and no one cares. The city was built by giant robots and no one can remember how they work, and sometimes people die when parts fall off them because they’re still standing in the city, and exactly no one is impressed. Cyberpunk is twenty minutes into the future with the contrast turned all the way up. Post-Cyberpunk is 20 years into the future with the volume on mute. Nothing has any impact because everyone was born into it, and a new AI breakthrough every year is entirely expected, and nothing really shocks anyone anymore.
i strongly associate traditional cyberpunk w pessimism.
Or maybe it takes place in the moment before the jump to “good/bad”.
i’m the optimist of team “appropriate cyberpunk and fix the misuses of it” so it’s totally fine for me to be “postcyberpunk” if you wish w/e
this is where my icon comes from in case yall were curious
gonna be 100% honest, this doesn’t improve my opinion of post-leftism at all.
attacking my relationship w my girl w about 82%accuracy WOULD YOU PEOPLE LET US LIVE
Property laws do not enforce themselves, within every transaction, every agreement or property claim there is the hand of the state promising to apply coercive violence to make it work. There is no such thing as a private economic action separate from police action.
Other tower blocks nearby are in need of ‘refurbishment’. Watch this fire be used an excuse to tear them down and gentrify the area instead with platitudes made about ‘affordable housing’ being included in new developments. Watch the working class be forced out of the area like the council wanted all along.
Capitalism. Private Property. Landlords. Policing. All working as designed.
‘I feel like the government are trying to kill us to force us out’
BBC lady: ‘ umm don’t say a bad word, you’ll offend people’
what’s offensive? what’s fuckin offensive
concept of a thieves guild: cool
reality of a thieves guild: tumblr shoplifting fandom
This post is just petty-bourgeois whining about how real rebellion is dirty and morally implicating and doesn’t live up to the romantic fantasies they had about it.
Long live the lifting fandom.
do you ever listen to what comes out of your mouth or have you evolved to be numb to it
#its not a fandom it’s a crime
Nice opinion, where’d you get it, the cop store?
i got it from a real nice place, you should check it out
mm i’ve always been more of a fan of this store: