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Where to find traditional girls? (self.korea)

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Hey. I am an American living in Seoul, free for the summer. I didn't date much before, either here or in the US. My Korean is low, but not non-existent (i take Korean classes).

I am not looking for a modern girl. I am looking for a girl who is more conservative and traditional.

Where should i go looking?

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[–]TonioGaddy 34 ポイント35 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Pretty sure you're looking for a unicorn. A super traditional Korean woman most likely won't speak English, much less date a foreigner.

[–]ruehafu20 29 ポイント30 ポイント  (0子コメント)

This is amazingly cringey.

[–]orange_bingsu 22 ポイント23 ポイント  (0子コメント)

"Where should I go looking?"

Perhaps 1970.

[–]THE_REAL_ODB 18 ポイント19 ポイント  (0子コメント)

WTF

[–]CheekythingUlsan (Land of Pixies and Whiskey)[🍰] 19 ポイント20 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Dageu is pretty conservative.

However why would they date you over a Korean guy? Traditionally conservative girls don't want a foreign partner.

[–]Suwon 28 ポイント29 ポイント  (3子コメント)

Type up a dating ad and post it around Jongno:

Westerner with no experience with women and limited Korean ability seeks traditional Asian girl to call him 서방님 and fulfill his fantasy for the summer. Must have a perm, wear a hanbok, use squat toilets, and live north of the Han River. Hatred of gender equality is a plus.

[–]uReallyShouldTrustMeSeoul 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Why the perm though?

[–]USAbornKR 19 ポイント20 ポイント  (31子コメント)

Or just stop being a sexpat???

[–]bobblo[S] -5 ポイント-4 ポイント  (28子コメント)

You got that i am a sexpat because i am looking for a traditional girl? I am looking for a traditional girl because i am more of a traditional guy.

[–]TonioGaddy 16 ポイント17 ポイント  (27子コメント)

So you're in/going to Korea to find a traditional Korean girl because you're a traditional guy. Isn't that literally being a sexpat

[–]bobblo[S] 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (26子コメント)

Well, sexpat is someone who engages in sex tourism: the organization of vacations with the purpose of taking advantage of the lack of restrictions imposed on prostitution and other sexual activities by some foreign countries, according to google.

That's not what i am doing at all.

[–]daehanmindecline 13 ポイント14 ポイント  (5子コメント)

You're looking for a traditional girl for a very non-traditional interracial sexual relationship.

[–]bobblo[S] -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (4子コメント)

My grandmother had blue eyes. Most likely, somewhere far into her past, an Arab had a sexual relationship with a Viking (i am presuming). Traditional people can marry those from other races.

[–]daehanmindecline 6 ポイント7 ポイント  (3子コメント)

You must be new here.

[–]bobblo[S] -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (2子コメント)

To this subreddit, pretty much, yes. I didn't know 'traditional' was such a horrible word on this subreddit.

[–]daehanmindecline 8 ポイント9 ポイント  (1子コメント)

I meant to Korea, where interracial relationships are very contentious and very much not conservative and traditional.

[–]bobblo[S] -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Been here about a year. It doesn't have to work for everybody. I am not going on a crusade.

[–]ruehafu20 9 ポイント10 ポイント  (8子コメント)

Women are not a commodity. Korean women are not a commodity for Western men to "look for".

[–]daehanmindecline 11 ポイント12 ポイント  (6子コメント)

Women are absolutely a commodity if you're traditional and conservative.

[–]bobblo[S] 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (5子コメント)

Do you treat women like a commodity?

[–]daehanmindecline 12 ポイント13 ポイント  (4子コメント)

No, but I'm not traditional or conservative.

[–]bobblo[S] -3 ポイント-2 ポイント  (3子コメント)

So, only traditional people or conservative people treat women like commodities? Odd definitions you have there. I'll stick to my dictionary, thank you very much.

[–]orange_bingsu 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Then would you care to go into a bit more detail about your definition of the ideal 'conservative/traditional Korean woman?'

[–]bobblo[S] 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

What? I am treating women like a commodity because i want to look for one? Take a step back. You are reading my words totally wrong.

[–]kingraptor724 -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Frequents r/asian identity. Your retarded bud

[–]rolfisrolf 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (6子コメント)

Traditional markets, traditional temples, traditional restaurants, traditional roads, traditional mountains - truly your options are limitless.

[–]daehanmindecline 12 ポイント13 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Korea.

More traditional than average? Any protestant church I guess.

Really traditional? There will be the Korea Queer Culture Fest next month, and lots of Christians come to protest them; I've noticed a lot of youngish women involved as well.

Still not traditional enough? There probably are a few women left on Ilbe.

Any more traditional than that and they're probably chained up in a kitchen somewhere.

[–]stallthedigger 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Oooh, you forgot a level - at the KQCF, there'll be the mainstream megachurch protest in front of Deoksugung, but there'll also be the sundry hard-right Christian/Confucian/Ultranationalist screamers with the GAYBOY=AIDS placards right in front of City Hall. Those folks think the megachurch crowd are sellouts and squishes - could be fertile ground for our Boy Wonder.

[–]Hwajangshil 11 ポイント12 ポイント  (0子コメント)

North Korea

[–]KSen34 7 ポイント8 ポイント  (12子コメント)

A traditional Korean girl? She won't meet a foreigner. And if you're also a traditional boy, you should look for a traditional girl in your own country no?

Why a Korean girl instead of an American one?

[–]bobblo[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (11子コメント)

Because i am in Korea and not America.

[–]KSen34 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (10子コメント)

Have you planned to live your life in Korea? If yes I could understand otherwise it's a waste of time and feelings.

A traditional girl here won't follow you when you'll go back to the USA. A traditional girl will have to care for her parents when they will be old. This is just an example of what could block her to live abroad.

The main problem is a traditional girl won't go against her family and they will reject you, so she won't try to engage herself with you.

And would you live in Korea with a girl while her family will use every single day to down yourself worse than a dog shit? I guess no.

Sir, just look the survey! The main reason to don't get in couple with a foreigner is the misunderstood of the culture. It's said before women tried with a foreigner. Like a stereotype! And other problems are all linked to the culture because of the language, the value, etc.... For me those are only excuses but hey everybody is free to believe anything.

As Koreans believe, there are girls to hang out with, and girls to marry with. The second option is only for Korean men. You could be handsome, for the same salary between men and women, "gentleman", etc.... you're not Korean!

Don't forget that the Korean blood and it's purity is celebrated once a year, still. And it's the base of the thinking for conservative Koreans.

[–]bobblo[S] 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (9子コメント)

Yes, i have no intention of taking her back to America. Perhaps i would want to return in the future, but i am in Korea for the long haul. It is why i study the Korean language diligently.

And her family is not something i worry about. Bring on the "treating me like dogshit". I can handle it.

[–]bananarepub 7 ポイント8 ポイント  (6子コメント)

so you're looking for a traditional korean woman for just want a pump and dump while there for a summer or few months? Why would you not just find any woman then? Some kind of weird fetish you're trying to experiment over there? Have her while she's wearing a traditional kimono? you sick fuck

[–]bobblo[S] 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (5子コメント)

What is a pump and dump?

Sounds like something i don't even want to google.

[–]bananarepub 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (4子コメント)

What is a pump and dump?

Yes, i have no intention of taking her back to America.

that is a pump and dump. get with her just for sports.

[–]bobblo[S] -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (3子コメント)

You have selective blindness? You can read that sentence, but choose not to read the following sentence?

[–]bananarepub 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (2子コメント)

no not at all. it's always you white asshats who go to other people countries or asia in general and go look for traditional local asian women.

We have yet to hear a foreigner come to white people countries and say they're looking for traditional local white women.

There are plenty of white women expat, working in korea, I am sure you can find one who is traditional.

[–]bobblo[S] -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Well, you did misrepresent what i said, and probably on purpose.

And foreigners do that to Americans. I am proof. My father is a foreigner who settled with a traditional, white, American woman. Just because you choose to have selective blindness, doesn't mean it doesn't happen.

If you don't like it, go seek out help. It happens. Get over it.

[–]KSen34 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Traditional girls don't look for a long haul, they look for the entire life until the death comes. That's the key point here.

If you still wanna give a chance for you, I'd say "go to church every Sunday". A God believer is a good start for you plan.

[–]bobblo[S] 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Ya, that's what i meant by 'the long haul'.

[–]ravenraven173 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (0子コメント)

holy shit you sexpats are brazen. you guys don't even try to hide it now.

[–]scatmunchies 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Check out /r/hapas, they're right on this kind of shit.

[–]freeseoulPlease think before crying to me. 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Another win for me. Thanks guys, what is that now, 8-0 or something? Thanks again. I must look like a genius from your point of view.

[–]Zing10 -3 ポイント-2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Looking for an ass beating? Don't worry, korean men will willfully deliver.

[–]koreathrwaway27 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Doubtful.

When faced with an WMAF couple, Korean dudes either

a) passive-aggressively mutter darkly to themselves/their friends if the girl is hot,

Or

b) praise the couple if the girl is homely.