>be a gender abolitionist
>talk a lot about materialism and slam gender essentialism
>say something needlessly alienating and resentment-driven, then backtrack it with “lmao just venting”
>get told by a trans woman that being flip about the ways your Brilliant Revolutionary Visions might needlessly hurt people is not so different from the bad patriarchal shit that straight men do
>”WHY ARE YOU MISGENDERING ME”
can’t be misgendered if you’re okay with any pronouns