As I stated in the title, my girlfriend and I have been dating for about two years and have been living together for 1. About a month ago we were out having a drink when she asked me what I thought if she started caming to make some extra money. Initially I was shocked by this because she is a huge feminist (part of advocacy groups and such). She also gets irritated by any movie or show that portrays women as sexual objects. I wasn't upset that she had the idea or brought it up, but I told her that I really wouldn't like if she did that sort of thing. We talked about it for a while and I teased her about it to get her to laugh and make light of the situation. I should note here that she has been out of work for a couple months and I have been paying for everything, so I think in her own way maybe she thought that caming was a way for her to contribute.
About a week ago I loaned her some money so she could take a French placement test because we are moving out of the country soon and France is on the list. I was happy to do so because it meant a lot to her. She spends a lot of time alone in our bedroom studying, which is exactly what I would have expected. However I've come home from work the past few days to find her in the bedroom with the door closed. I would knock and she would tell me not to come in because she was changing. She has never had a problem with me seeing her naked before so I thought that was strange. When the same thing happened the next day I asked if she had been masturbating, which she reluctantly admitted to. I have no problem with that at all, I think people should be more open about that sort of thing anyway. She also brought up the caming thing again later that evening, trying to convince me to be OK with it. I told her that I still really didn't want her to do that.
I usually go to bed around 10:30pm because I work early and she usually comes with me, but the past few nights she has stayed up to study French in our spare bedroom. She's woken me up 3 times around 4am coming back in to go to sleep. When I was leaving for work this morning I grabbed my sweatshirt that was lying on the floor for some reason and her vibrator fell out of it. I asked her what that was about and she didn't really give me an explanation for it, but I shrugged it off and continued to get ready. I went into the spare bedroom to get my shoes and noticed that her laptop was sitting on the bed. Next to it was a bow for her hair, makeup, out of her case, and a bottle of oil. This made me suspicious as she wasn't wearing a bow yesterday, never puts makeup on in there, and the oil seemed strange for obvious reasons. I feel bad about it but I had to know, so I checked her search history and not only had she been on a caming website last, she had an account (That is the only time I've ever breached her privacy, I'm not a snoop). I didn't know what to say to her so I didn't bring it up, I just left to work.
I'm absolutely furious that she would do that behind my back. I know some guys are OK with that sort of thing but I really am not. I'm finding it hard to get past her lying to me about it and doing it when I told her it would make me uncomfortable. I don't want to under or overreact when I talk to her about this so I feel I need some guidance. My trust in her is shaken.
Thanks for the help.
Tl;Dr my girlfriend has been secretly caming behind my back when I told her that I wouldn't be OK with it.
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