When We Said Goodbye To Daddy

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00026345 00014152 00000316 00026253 00014150 00026342 00026343 00026308 000002860002634900014157Scenes from the divorce referendum of 1995 (withj black and white images from the divorce referendum of 1986).

The last great fear-mongering culture war before instant fact-checking.

Including, from top: No campaigner Peter Scully (pic 3) Mick Lally and Roddy Doyle (pic 4), Bono with Nell McCafferty, (pic 5) both images taken in the Right to Remarry campaign office in Dublin; Final pic: Emily O’Reilly with John O’Reilly (no relation) of the anti-divorce campaign at the 1986 referendum count centre in the RDS, Ballsbridge, Dublin.

(Eamonn Farrell/Photocall Ireland)

68 thoughts on “When We Said Goodbye To Daddy

  1. Dave

    Are you sure this is 1996? From the fashion in those pictures it looks like 1986! Did we always dress so poorly and do we continue to do so?

    1. yourcommentisawaitingmoderation

      Mick Lally (RIP), Roddy Doyle, Bono and Nell McCafferty were hardly ever paragons of fashion now were they? As for the people in the black and white picture, I think they look great. Not a tracksuit or pyjama to offend the eye.

      1. Mister Mister

        Yeah, but wasn’t colour invented by then ? Just goes to show the levels of poverty in Ireland at the time when there’s not a colour to be seen in those photos of the working class.

        1. yourcommentisawaitingmoderation

          Well after that roll in the hay with Fidelma, his card was marked.

        2. Ryano

          They’re unlikely to have been photographed in the Right to Remarry campaign offices if they were anti-divorce.

    2. cluster

      I reckon I could take a set of pictures of Dubliners today with almost the exact same clothes (Lally’s jumper aside).

      Don’t think they look all that bad but maybe I’m part of the problem.

  2. Angelily

    Results of that referendum, 50.28% of electorate voting for with 49.72% against. Phew, close call! Shows that every vote counts.

    1. Alan

      We only have divorce in the country because of the weather on polling day – as I remember, it was a lovely sunny day on the liberal east coast and it rained hard in the conservative west. The other way around and the percentages were close enough to be reversed…

  3. paul

    Our local Garda Sergeant canvassed against divorce (as a Fianna Fáiler) door-to-door. Ah Ireland.

  4. JoeO

    Pretty sure those are from 86. I gave out those WP leaflets at the time: Civil Divorce is a Civil Right. We was whipped!

  5. missred

    What, no pictures of the original wife-swapping sodomite begrudger herself, Una Bean Ni Mhathuna?

    1. Liggy

      Ah I loved her, she was so bad she was …. well quite terrible really. One of her more widely attributed quotes:

      “One can’t plan a family. God alone decides when a child is made (and) the individual … has not the right to murder and that is what the definition of contraception really is”

      She got published in the mainstream press too. Dem WERE the days.

  6. Paul Moloney

    The chap on the right in the last photo is probably the least known person who’s had the most affect on your life. John O’Reilly, the “star” of Emily O’Reilly book “Masterminds of the Right”. Still on the committee of the Pro Life Campaign as Secretary: http://prolifecampaign.ie/?page_id=13 (No photo of him, oddly)

    P.

  7. Derval

    What’s the “Divorce changes all life-long marriages to 5 years” argument about?

    Is that similar to “same-sex marriage makes my marriage non-existent” argument?

  8. Just sayin

    I think its a mix of photos in the lead up to both referenda in June 1986 and November 1995.”Hello Divocre, Bye bye daddy” is form 1995 I think.

  9. ThatsMeTrying

    Ugh. Thought to myself: “Who is that handsome fellow chatting with Nell?”
    Then read it was Bono.

    Now I feel sick and sullied. Ugh.

  10. Caboosicle

    I find it kind of funny/sad that the “;Hello Divorce, Bye, Bye Daddy” campaigners were right in some ways.

    How many divorcee/single fathers have rights over their kids now?

  11. Ahjayzis

    Love the bit about divorce allowing abusive husbands to “continue their behaviour into a second marriage” – absolutely guys, let the first wife take one for the team and stick with the prick!

    1. cluster

      Look, for goodness, life is tough…. Ahjaysiz you know that, the ‘The Road Less Travelled’. ‘Life is tough’ that’s the first sentence of it. And it was written by a psychiatrist in 1957.”

      But sure we’re all going to end up dead anyway.”

  12. Daniel Sullivan

    Ah the 1986 divorce referendum, that was a campaign to behold. Well intentioned but shockingly naive people were destroyed in a campaign that started out being about the messiness of ordinary human lives and relationships and ended up with scare stories about gold diggers divding up family farms. Dear God, it was awful stuff.

    Glad I was able to vote Yes twice (in 1986 and 1995) even if the first time around it was as part of the only 2 Yes boxes in all the 96 or so from Kerry.

  13. ItsOnlyMe

    great photos……the anti-divorce lobbyists of the time must be horrified to think that people are still falling in love and getting married in 2013 !

    hard to believe this was such a short time ago!

    1. Frilly Keane

      Sur haven’t they the next round of divorce rallies to get ready and frumped up for
      The Gay Divorce

      ‘looking forward to it meself

      Like I said before, it beings out the best in us

  14. Django

    Look how much Bono feels, everything. He was always a great feeler. Everything affects him more, because of his Jesusness.

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