Minimum wage? A bus driver with no experience gets like double the minimum wage from where I live. Well you have to go through the whole hiring and training process but still even someone with no experience can do better than minimum wage.

You obviously have some experience right? Go do some certificate courses thats related to your field, like even a first aid course is an asset and can potentially save yourself or others if you work with other people. Switch to another company if the current company is treating you like shit.

I was looking for some side jobs for this summer and had some interviews with some restoration companies. They are super busy in the summer, lots of projects, they all ask me to quit my current job and help them full time and will pay me more than what I make now, and I don't even have experience in restoration lol.

As to your question, you pretty much lose half your shit when you get married and divorce raped. You keep everything if you stay single and go mgtow. Thats pretty much self explanatory in terms of cost.