The care and attention of a mother for her child is the key ingredient of all creatures and especially us humans. The professional care and attention of a teacher makes all the difference to students' learning experience and life. Monarchical or elected leaders' care and attention to duty is what holds entire civilisations together. When you want to learn something you pay more care and attention. And because the life span is limited, care and attention are practically life currencies.

Care and attention are personal energies that are perfectly useful for self-betterment. And like all flows of energy in this world our care and attention are subject to a range of risks like predation (advertisers, they want our c&a); parasites (loudly or quietly obnoxious draggers etc.); leakage (our own uncontrolled mind and senses) and so on. Bottom line: care and attention are inestimably valuable but only really when used wisely.

The care and attention of a good man who uses his wisely is very rare and sought-after - I don't call it a commodity because it least of all is 'something produced for sale'. The human values of a good man make him practically always a leaders somehow or other and followed - especially by those in need of protection in this world, women in particular.

Learning to mete out or withhold care and attention is a core male skill. Give even a sliver to the wrong crazy cunt and you can end up utterly fucked. Withhold it when and from whom it is genuinely required - because some people including all women and children and also old people do genuinely require it some more than others ha - and you might not be exactly fucked but you know what I mean. Don't be a Luke. Use that force like a man.

Why? Because the ways of the world are perplexing as it is and out of everything it's interpersonal dealings that need the most care and attention to do them and our span of life in this wonderful world proper justice.