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[–]OldRoad 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I hear mixed reports on dating tips -- some say it works for them, some say that it doesn't.

I have a pretty good guess that it wouldn't work for me -- I'd need different genetics.

I disagree with you that the face is everything to women. They also want a tall guy, and an in-shape guy, as has been discussed on this group in the past.

I agree with you about money. I don't think it helps unless you are a millionaire or something. I think those people ARE out there though -- and the rest of the guys have to compete with their money.

I have seen the deal where a guy thinks that if he just acts differently, suddenly the women will magically follow him -- but the guy is not what women want. This can get pretty awkward to see. Generally, if the guy isn't good looking, the woman tends to get weirded out about it. For example, I once saw a nerdy guy just randomly state how beautiful this woman was, right to her -- in front of a bunch of people they all knew. And I don't think they were dating at all -- this was his way of somehow going out on a limb for her publicly. She seemed weirded out by it and seemed to be trying to ignore it. It was kind of awkward to watch, but from that guy's view, he really was just trying to figure out what the heck he had to do to date someone he liked.

These days, I can see this sort of thing leading to women telling the guy to go away, at the very least.

These guys just want something -- some philosophy, plan, advice, just SOMETHING -- to bring them a happy life. It reminds me of some of those people who get into that direct marketing stuff, and they get talked into believing that they will be wonderfully successful if they just try as hard as they can.

It's just hard for guys to accept that the relationship world is rigged against a lot of guys.