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How do you guys deal with loneliness? (self.MGTOW)

realChebz が 投稿

Many MGTOWs are abstaining from relationships. In my case relationships abstain me. Either way sooner or later I get lonely and depressed. I go out with friends as much as I can, and have some good hobbies, I also work crazy hours. But there's only so much of that I can do. There are still weekends when all friends are busy, no meetups in local area, and I feel sad and lonely and strive for female company. I've been to escorts multiple times and that didn't quite do the trick for me.

Right now if I am alone in the evening I usually get stoned (no hangover like with alcohol) and watch youtube or work on one of my side project. But it's more of a way to kill time so I can finally go to sleep.

What is your solution? How do you deal with this feeling?

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[–]hackableyou 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

If you are the one making the decision because you see the ugliness of women, there is little to no loneliness. This isn't your situation, so I feel for you man. I am sorry you are in this situation.

[–]realChebz[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I am not really making any decisions. But I am also not attracted to majority of women (outside of sex drive), just as they are not attracted to me. I find them shallow, selfish, and boring. They find me short and unattractive. That mutual dislike doesn't quench the feeling of loneliness though. Sometimes I see couples walking holding hands and I get fucking jealous.

Now I know it's not MGTOW way to talk about your weaknesses. To become a true MGTOW you have to be a machine with no feelings. But personally I can't seem to be happy with consumer goods and fat bank account alone. I need someone to give a shit about me as naive as it sounds... Maybe I should get a dog or something.

[–]lie-deflector 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Relationships abstain me as well, but considering what my previous one was like I'm not too excited to jump back in even if the opportunity presented itself.

Everyone I know thinks I'm lonely and need a woman in my life but honestly I couldn't be more content. I want to live my life farther than just what a woman can provide me, which is little to none at this point.

Because women this day and age cant boil water, I've had to learn to be self sufficient, and thus it really negates the need or desire for a relationship. Sure I get really lonely many times, but the feeling goes away and that's how it's going to be for the rest of my life.

I'm looking forward to maturing in life, earning more money to spend on myself and my friends, and getting to experience what the world has to offer for my short time here.

[–]LiftinMigger69 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

You have to ask yourself "What do I want?" Do you want to be sad and miserable? No? Then why do you make yourself feel like a piece of shit? Don't ask me. I do not know. Only you can know.

Do you really think you'll be happy with a woman around your arm? Maybe. You can not depend on a woman to make you happy. Only you can make you happy. When you rely on external things for happiness you invite misery.

[–]TheGillos 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Go outside. Enjoy nature. Exercise. Read books. Explore your town and local events. Etc. Million and one things out ther sans women.

[–]lonewolf-chicago 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I hear you loud and clear. It sounds like you are not choosing this life, but rather are a victim of it. You are seeing it as loneliness because you do want to be in a relationship.

Nothing wrong with that if that is your goal. To me, it sounds like you are walking in the middle of the road. That is where the suffering lives.

There is nothing anyone can say... you have to choose MGTOW or choose to date women and actively pursue them. It is up to you.