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[–]SCROTAL-SACK 42 ポイント43 ポイント  (12子コメント)

I was in a horrible situation where I'd moved in with a girl, and after about 6 months we really weren't getting on at all. NOTHING was good enough, I never.. EVER had more than a minute of quiet. It drove me to depression, honestly. I didn't even want to go home after work. She refused to leave, and there was nothing I could do while she was here. Legally, I was fucked.. And nearly every night she would come and start an argument that would go for HOURS because she just would.not let it go. I was sleep deprived and suicidal by the end of it. I actually carefully and cleverly manipulated her over the course of weeks into believing that we need a break from living together because the relationship was suffering. And promised things would get better, and that I would "be better" once she was moved out. She finally moved back to her mums and shortly after I broke up with her.

Men, please, for your own sanity.. Never co-habitate with a woman. It's stupidly difficult to get them out once they're in. You will be trapped in your own home. It had such a major effect on my life I'll never do it again.

edit: To today, everything is fantastic. I'm in bliss with the peace and quiet I can enjoy in my own house now. Silence is underrated. Stress levels down, depression - recovering. Just don't do it guys, seriously.

[–]IslandicFreedom 11 ポイント12 ポイント  (3子コメント)

Pretty much this! If you really have to be in a relationship don't live together. Find a woman with her own place, you keep yours. Stay independent financial entities too. I've found that this is the best way to live.

Be with a woman who works, has her own shit going on too, so when you meet up it's for mutual company and sex, nice to have someone to go on holidays with or do grocery shopping with etc.

But living together is absolute hell.

[–]squidracer 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Another option is to move in with her and rent your place out for money. That way if things go south you can be the one that leaves (preferably without notice)

[–]Mikehideous 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Yeah except then your stuff is on her property. I've had this go south fast before. Don't do it.

[–]squidracer 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Some of your stuff is on her property. Your expensive stuff should not be.

Besides, just move out while she's at work and leave a dear John letter. Better yet, don't even leave a note

[–]FutureHope2[S] 9 ポイント10 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Man that story sounds bleak. Nice tactical play though. Glade your out.

[–]Beam_Me_Up2016 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Plus the toilet paper lasts so much longer.

[–]GuidoBandito 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I was just thinking about this with that accountant post. If I were to have split the year's worth of toilet paper I just bought with my ex-wife, I'd literally be ok for about 7-8 months out. She'd be done in 4 months time...

[–]RunsInJeans 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Just so I understand. You escaped common-law obligations by "tricking" her into moving out then breaking up with her? (brilliant if thats the case lol)

[–]cyborg_type_darkness 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

What was her reaction when she found out that you are not getting back together with her in a house?

[–]Hiromant 16 ポイント17 ポイント  (6子コメント)

Start being needy and always fully available to her majesty. Text her good morning and night, offer to drive her everywhere, always pay for everything. Basically modern day blue pill dating tactics. She will be disgusted and gone before you can say "but I love you."

[–]FutureHope2[S] 9 ポイント10 ポイント  (4子コメント)

start wearing womens underwear also to bed!! hahaha game over!

[–]up_syndrome 13 ポイント14 ポイント  (3子コメント)

Hold on now, I do that for comfort

[–]gods_bones 7 ポイント8 ポイント  (1子コメント)

That's OK if it's a comfort thing. You just need to take it to the next level. Buy a dildo and ask her to peg you. It usually works. If not, she will be really into it and your relationship will slowly start getting better.

[–]a17c81a3 6 ポイント7 ポイント  (0子コメント)

My ex always complained I didn't pick her up and all that crap while her friends were picked up.

It was so ridiculous it basically flew over my head - too dumb to be a beta I guess. I manage to get around on my own, why can't they?

[–]Coluphid 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (5子コメント)

Devils advocate.

Don't forget women monkey branch. They don't just up and leave without first securing themselves an alternate provider.

We also know almost all women will have at least one backup guy. Preselected and groomed, ready to develop into something substantial by throwing some physical affection his way.

So when you start playing sick/poor/weak, odds are she won't make a clean break then and there.

She'll just start fucking the other guy. Sure, in time she will fully transition to him, but in the meantime you're literally getting cucked. And if the emotional impact of this isn't bad enough, you're being exposed to a potential pool of STDs by proxy.

Not worth the risk IMHO.

We are Men. If you want her gone, be a Man and make that clean break yourself. You don't need an excuse. You don't need a validation. You just need a reason - and you're the only person that reason needs to be acceptable to.

[–]squidracer 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Well, they think they have a backup guy.

I've had a few that thought they were going to leave their bfs and move in with me. They were very disappointed when they had to apologize to their bfs to stay

[–]Coluphid 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

That is why they will often have multiple backup guys. A primary, for sure, but also secondaries they will have felt out.

[–]squidracer 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

And allot of them end up single still because the guys they want aren't the guys that commit.

If a guy is hooking up with a girl who's attached here doing it for the rush

[–]badhairguy 9 ポイント10 ポイント  (4子コメント)

Or act like a man and just tell her to fuck off. Playing petty games is a woman's art.

[–]FutureHope2[S] 14 ポイント15 ポイント  (0子コメント)

NAAAA bro.. the trick is to think its her idea... Otherwise your at increased risk of revenge

[–]skoobled 6 ポイント7 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I've tried this in the past. The manliness and drama is like catnip to them.

[–]squidracer 7 ポイント8 ポイント  (0子コメント)

That backfires. They love a good argument

[–]Colehoun3333 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Seriously though like these guys said - when you ball up she sees you have huge balls. This is okay if you never HAVE to see or come in to contact with her again. But if she lives near you, goes to the same school, works with you, or hangs out in the same circles - you need to tread carefully. Some situations you can man up and do it. Others require careful negotiation and erosion of the relationship. I haven't even mentioned the fact that her stuff and your stuff is now mixed together. That's a mission in itself. Do I move her shit out? Will she claim I stole shit? If I can convince her to move on or out of my place, without explicitly suggesting it,... will this be easier for me? It is always easier if you can get her to move out. You gotta herd her like sheep - you are the sheep dog. Place a few well- planned obstacles in your life (that she can't or won't investigate): a) boss shouting at you weekly b) tell her you overdrafted on your bank account but it was okay because you get paid Friday and she has enough money for you two to eat on until then c) car needs to have work on it so you had to spend half your paycheck on it d) talk to her in an annoying baby voice but only when you say hello or goodbye - just enough to bug her and question your masculinity without her actually bringing it up. Basically just come up with anything that makes you come across as needy, in a lot of trouble financially, or incompetent in your career.

[–]boogalooshrimp1103 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Best way to get rid of a woman is to borrow money and never pay it back.

[–]cleats4u 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Legally you have to evict the bitch. Then she has 30 days to have her new boyfriend rob you while your at work or have you arrested for domestic violence which ever comes first. Best thing to do is start renting temporary rooms out in your house to strangers. This will get her to move out and you have witnesses if she calls the cops on you. Never move a bitch in! Their end game is always marriage and free rent. Your fooling yourself if you think otherwise.

[–]geocitiesuser 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

So sad but true....

[–]cyborg_type_darkness 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Step #1 protect your assets.

After that you can do what you want.

I heard a story about a guy saying he is going on a vacation trip with his girlfriend. When the gf left the house he replaced the locks and she couldn't enter the house anymore. The vacation trip was a hoax to have her leave the house.