There has not been one woman I've dated in the past 10 years that's parents are still together. I date mostly all races and ages have gone from 23-43.

I'm just looking at the playing field. Dads disappeared after child support was paid because the mother ran them off. I've heard this same story over and over. Every time I meet their mothers. They say "I'm marrying for money the next time around."

This is the new American way of life and it's going into its 3rd generation. Wars & financial crisis were the reasoning that people stuck together and toughed it out back then. It was basically for survival.

I was watching Jurassic World the other day and in the first 15 minutes we get introduced to a couple that is going through a divorce.

This is a kids movie and we're just supposed to be okay with this? "You'll get 2 birthdays and 2 Xmases! "

Are they really marketing divorce to kids?

Will there ever be another pivot? What has made us reach this point?

I want more answers. I read the articles. I hear your stories. I research the stats. It should be an open shut case. Yet.

I want to touch the flame even though so many good men have been burned before. I still have hope.