In order to keep balance and stay on mission, I use the common tactic of separating my life into sections. I do this by using different names.
For example: My legal name is X but my family calls me Y from childhood. And then I use a made-up name with people I don't care about and women.
With work and all business related people, or people that I could maybe use to benefit myself financially; I introduce and use my legal name X. With all personal friends and family members, I use Y. Business partners can be promoted to use Y but it is extremely rare. If you know me by Y, then you are in the circle of trust. Then, with anyone that I don't care about or typically with women...I use some shit like "Chad" or "Brad" or "Jason" etc.
So, if you are like me, and meet a lot of people every week; you can tell who they are to you by the name they call you.
"Hey Jason!" - woman I might fuck
"Hello X" - OK time for business mode
"I fucking hate you Y" - Kiss my ass family member. Love you bye.
Just wanted to put this on here. Might help one of you because it helps me not get emotionally involved with the people who call me X or Jason.
ここには何もないようです