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[–]Marque01 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (1子コメント)

It's called accountability. They don't like being held accountable

[–]801735 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Accounta-what?!?! Oh, look, kittens! AWwwwwww.

You're not looking. I SAID LOOK! KITTENS!

[–]Whiskeybandit67 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (0子コメント)

As long as they get theirs they don't care. So they trapped their beta so they ignore the rest of the comming collapse.

[–]mercwithamagicsword 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Its just like the BP and RP for men, some are aware of it completely, and others are just following their social programming blindly, with varying degrees in between the poles.

[–]just8lmao[S] 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

That's a good point. Maybe these are the lies women tell themselves to a certain extent.

[–]BSmith321 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Sometimes, Yes. Sometimes, No.

And, sometimes they know EXACTLY what they are doing.

[–]MGTOW_Helper 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (3子コメント)

I think they do, they're just testing you and your integrity and personal power. If you show integrity and reject the lying and manipulation, they will respect you. If you compromise your integrity and pander to the lying and manipulation, she will have contempt for your lack of character and have no problem using you for whatever it is you can offer her.

[–]just8lmao[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Thanks for your answer. You're right, it's about holding frame essentially. Shit tests.

The one I have in mind..

She is a psychotic destructive cunt. She'll make it not worth the time to reject her manipulation by fucking EVERYTHING up. This is a female who is completely uncontrolled. They really just don't care. I should just cut her out, eh? Have any advice? It's a close family member.

[–]801735 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Provide some other source of drama.

[–]MGTOW_Helper [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

Because she's family, I'm not sure if you can cut her out without also doing damage to yourself, and it would be shitty if you had to sustain damage even though she's the problem, that doesn't seem fair. I would say maintain a distance that enables you to minimize damage, while building your personal power. Once you have enough personal power, she will bow to you. More correctly, first she'll go crazy, then she'll bow to you.

The best route to personal power that I have found so far is being truthful in one's thinking. There is nothing more powerful than the truth, because reality doesn't budge and can't be bullied.

There is a great book called The Four Agreements that can help one to develop higher levels of integrity and personal power.

For example, if you admit to yourself that you're not interested in monogamy and love having sex with as many women as you please, you won't seek a monogamous relationship and then spend your life looking for something you don't even really want.

I wish I had more for you, but hopefully this helps a little.

[–]Eyes_Of_The_Dragon 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

They have a very hard time thinking outside their own ego.

For example, my ex's best friend once complained that no one ever asked her out. I pointed out several times where recently she had been complaining loudly that "creepy men" had asked for her number. Her response was "Those don't count!" Translation: it doesn't count unless I want him.

When you remember to frame her words through her ego, things start to make sense.