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Talking to people (friends, family etc) in person is becoming utterly pointless (rantish) (self.MGTOW)

themachiavelliprince が 投稿

People ask for your opinion then tell you that you're a negative cunt and need to stop being a pussy and that you should "just do what makes you happy" when you answer them.

Tell a friend you are unhappy with xx and how you seek to address it. No reply.

Try call my stepmom who has been ill with cancer lately. No reply. No text. Just a sorry I was on the phone all day to people a few days later. Well sorry for fucking caring bitch.

Open you mouth at work and then people with this amazing elephant memory are like "yes but remember in April of 2015 when you said xxx."

Give my opinion to a visiting board partner at work about how best to move forward with something, direct line manager undercuts and interrupts his senior just to discount my very obviously valid point.

Tell a woman anything and they just load it into a shotgun and shoot back. Stoic writings make all of this very clear. Learnings: I turned my phone off last weekend and didn't talk to anyone and I was a lot happier. Now I am at home in a disgusting mood because of talking to people. Ghosting, self sustainability is really the only way.

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[–]trueconviction 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

There are a few things to be said here.

One, I would recommend doing away with friends who do not care your problems or do not have the time to listen to you (barring emergencies). Of course, you can't just find good wholesome friends off the street either. And that is an unfortunate problem that you would be justified in ranting about.

Two, I noticed many of your conversations involved the use of phones/texting. In all honesty this is a kind of silly way to expect serious conversations to bear fruit. For serious things, there is no substitution for face to face dialogue. In a sense, you're setting yourself up to be disappointed here if this is all you do.

Third, I agree with your general assessments. It is a rare person indeed that cares about you or your problems. There are some people out there that do though. I've seen them. You can spend a lot of time trying to find these people if you want, and that is fine. Or of course as you mention, you can try to be self sustainable which is the best solution. Personally, I do both. I don't actually spend a lot of active time looking for good wholesome friends but when I stumble across one I try to keep close to that person throughout life. I think it is a healthy thing.