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Cant get past 2 months in LTR (self.asktrp)

mrHappyPotatoe が 投稿

So always when I end up in ltr things get so complicated that girls leaving me and on top of that acusing me of stuff they didnt speak about during the honeymoon period.

I guess my main problem is not doing this girly stuff with them. They tell me that i dont care for them. Wtf i am supposed to do. I am not that type of guy who brings presents or flowers. I cant pin point what i miss from trp.

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[–]throw162534 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

2 months is not a LTR. That's still the initial dating period. I would suggest you act exactly like you do on the first couple dates. Be cocky, a bit of dick and fuck her brains out. If you want a LTR start comforting her a little bit around 2 months in.

[–]thatguyfromchi [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

Can't seem to pass two years in a ltr

[–]bainbridge_island [スコア非表示]  (2子コメント)

Sounds like you are unable to effectively communicate (and likely)feel positive emotions towards your significant other. This isnt about presents and flowers. You act like you "don't care" about them because you don't. As a result, your potential LTRs feel rejected, unwanted, and dismissed. In a nutshell, you make them feel like shit, and so they leave you. Would you wanna be around someone that makes you feel like shit? Of course not.

You may not be cut out for LTRs.

[–]mrHappyPotatoe[S] [スコア非表示]  (1子コメント)

That was lightening. You are probably right. I do not feel much for them at first. But this magical 2 months when i do start to catch feelz is time the exact time when its too late to fix anything.

[–]bainbridge_island [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

Day late, dollar short.

Hope this doesn't become the story of your life. BTW, RP sucks and it's torpedoing your chances of finding a happy LTR. But keep drinking the RP kool-aid if you so wish...

[–]Surfincloud9 [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

You gotta be more comforting for real. Im bad at LTRs but I'm good at comforting. My girl just seems so distant and pissed all the time. I don't know