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TRP is affecting my life (self.TheBluePill)

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Unfortunately, a year or two back (when I was 17) I started believing some of the toxic stuff that MGTOW/Sandman/TRP preaches. Growing up I have always LOVED women and have always tried to make them laugh and was such a joyful kid..and they loved being around me for it. I had dreamed of having a family one day with a wife I loved and yada yada.

I got depressed in high school which made me vulnerable to believing negativity. I somehow stumbled across sandmans YouTube page and spent a few months reading up on MGTOW/TRP "protocol". I found it all fascinating and it filled my desire to be confident again. Deep down I had always wanted the love of women and I thought this was how to get it. But it really just made me hopeless and have no faith for my future.

On some level I still believe that women are incapable of loving men, that all they want is money, and we spend our whole lives chasing them but they don't really want us. It's terrible feeling this way because it destroys my dreams.

How do I get rid of these terrible, toxic views?

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[–]PM_ME_YOUR_FRAMEInstant karma is my sexual strategy 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (0子コメント)

What do you think about

On some level I still believe that men are incapable of loving women, that all they want is hot bodies to fuck, and we spend our whole lives being chased by them but they don't really want us. It's terrible feeling this way because it destroys my dreams.

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[–]InVelluVeritas 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (1子コメント)

You should try to understand both sides of TRP advice ; they give generic "good" advice (try and work out, be more confident, etc.) but they wrap it in a heinous philosophy of misogyny and emotional manipulation, based on nothing but dubious anecdotal evidence.

Try to ask yourself : why do you think women are incapable of love ? What would make them that different from us ? Do you really believe every woman you've ever known was only after their partner's money ?

To be fair, if you've started questioning the TRP ideology, you're in the right track ; just try and interact with some women and you'll see by yourself that they can be awesome human beings just as you =)

[–]7-62x39 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

You should try to understand both sides of TRP advice ; they give generic "good" advice (try and work out, be more confident, etc.) but they wrap it in a heinous philosophy of misogyny and emotional manipulation, based on nothing but dubious anecdotal evidence.

I feel like an alternative Redpill would be beneficial or at least some kind of primer for letting weird awkward guys know what to avoid before they start reading TRP. Alternative Redpill would be better.

[–]OmLiLiThe Irrational Male 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

The same way you stop thinking about Camels, put yourself into a situation where you stop thinking about Camels. Kinda hard to get off the TRP bullshit train if you're hanging around reddit!

On some level I still believe that women are incapable of loving men, that all they want is money, and we spend our whole lives chasing them but they don't really want us. It's terrible feeling this way because it destroys my dreams.

Well, you gotta remember that there is no You, people just love what you bring to their lives right. So be a happy awesome person, and you bring happiness and awesomeness to other people's lives. Staying in a place with a bunch of butthurt weirdos won't make you happy or awesome.

At the end of the day, no one here can really help you or force you to do anything, if you wanna stay on TRP and keep reading the bullshit, go ahead, if you're gonna do it, you'll do it no matter what anyone here says.

[–]bainbridge_island 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Deep down, i still believe that men are incapable of loving women, that all they want is younger pussy, and we spend our lives chasing them but they don't really want us, but just younger pussy and ego validation.

[–]Arbitrary_moondust 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'm in a long distance relationship with a broke college kid. If I was after money I would have dumped him long ago. Long distance is rough and I wouldn't have made so many sacrifices for him if I didn't love him from the bottom of my heart