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I'm a shitty MGTOW (self.MGTOW)

FreeNClear32 が 投稿

Went MGTOW about 2 years ago(or so I thought).

Going MGTOW to me was about necessity. Women weren't showing interest in me, so i decided to return the "fuck you" and not show interest in them.

Long story short, I had liked a girl at work over 3 years ago. We ended up parting ways when she went into a new department but we stayed work friends. A few months ago, i ended up helping her transfer to my department and now she sits right next to me.

We are really friendly at work and we text each other outside of work, but I get a really strong feeling that she's not interested in me outside of a friend and that just crushes me.

I let my MGTOW training fail me, and I ended up where I've been before, alone, and devastated.

At least when I considered myself full MGTOW, when a girl didn't show interest in me, it didn't phase me(in fact, it felt as if I had dodged a bullet).

Time go to go back into solitude and hone my training.

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[–]Wraith29 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

You have to become a terrible thought. A wraith...

[–]FleshPanda 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

It's ok man. I went full blown back to my old ways after 6 years. I was living in the matrix for like 3 months before I snapped back to reality. Everyone makes mistakes. Just remember what you learned and keep working towards your goals.

[–]lonewolf-chicago 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

You're issue isn't being a good mgtow or bad mgtow (doesn't exist anyway), it is attachment to what others think of you. Receiving validation is still important to you - when there was no possibility of gaining validation you decided to stay away from the source of validation and then when the source is re-instated or now present, your quest for validation takes over. It never went away, therefore you didn't work at destroying it.

Guys tell me if I'm correct or not.. but that is what is seems to me.

To me, your goal should be to destroy your need for validation.