In the past, women were essentially the property of men. They were “goods” to be fought over or traded. This was true in most parts of the world and for most of evolutionary history. Now, don’t misunderstand. Men were “enslaved” as well… perhaps even more so or under much worse circumstances since they held relatively little “beauty” and reproductive value in the eyes of those in power. Men were also forced to go to war and die. This is largely true even today. In the modern world, however, men die a little less often than they used to (and women too). Childbirth has become safer, babies more likely to survive and soldiers less likely to die of any number of things that typically killed them easily, e.g. infection from open wounds. Technology has changed the world.

However, technology also brought about the smartphone. It’s a device most people have these days and we use it for just about everything, even making voice calls. The device is essential and really makes our lives easier; many aspects of life… including finding dates with apps such as Tinder. However, in dating, men and women are not equal. Men have a far greater desire to pursue women and spread their seed or DNA, as it were, than women do. Men need only 3 seconds whereas women will be saddled for 9 months and possibly die as a result (as was the case for most of human history). So evolution made women far more selective than men. Wherever possible, they would basically just ignore all but the most outstanding men or their captors/rapists whom they simply couldn’t ignore. Female brains are not “wired” to seek out sexual partners like male brains are.

This means that in the real world, with few outstanding men (given how much smaller the world has become) and virtually no captors/rapists tolerated by the law, women are unable to decide which men to choose from, if any. The ‘wetware’ running on their brains has not had time to adjust to the new environment and even if it is adjusting it is probably not in a way that favors them seeking out any man they can get. Why should they? They have jobs, they have equal pay (yes, they really do), they have homes, they have security etc. They have everything they previously had to earn through their beauty and wombs. Sex is little more than a pastime or a kind of amusement for them. Most women could just as easily go without. Incidentally, this also slows down population growth (make of that what you will, conspiracy theorists).

Men, however, are in a different boat. We’ve heard of “baby rabies” in women but this phenomenon seems to be becoming less and less common. More men, however, seem to be driven insane in being unable to find a woman… any woman (not just supermodels). This is something the male brain was not equipped by evolution to handle. There were almost always women (attractive women, even) left over to be distributed and taken care of by the men that lived long enough to procreate. Today, there are simply too many swinging dicks competing with each other. The legal system also offers far more protections and incentives to women (and children), which puts men at greater risk of committing to women if they can even find one to commit to, that is.

Does this mean men are simply “opting out” or deciding they’d rather remain single? To some extent this is true with the men’s rights movement and philosophies such as MGTOW (men going their own way) which is a repackaging of the bachelorhood concept that arises throughout history but often not celebrated or encouraged because it puts women at risk of not having the upper hand in relationships. Yes, men still do most of the dirty, heavy and risky jobs that most women are simply incapable of doing. This is not to say women could never survive on their own but they would not be living in the kind of technologically advanced and civilized world they find themselves in today. These privileges are largely upheld and maintained by the men. So what’s the real reason, then, that many or at least some men will never find a woman?

Well, it’s a combination of a variety of factors such as I mentioned earlier but also one more thing. Women tend to rely on people they can trust. This means that if her say, her sister, aunt, close friend(s), mother or father were to tell her that a man is good for her (and she has no one else in mind herself), she is more likely to believe them and act on that belief. She is far less likely to be taken in by the charms of the man himself because as I implied earlier, women evolved to distrust men and look out mainly for their own interests and the interests of their children. If they get no such recommendations, they are also more likely to just say, “fuck it” and be on their own. Their DNA will not be altering the chemical balances in their brain and driving them as crazy (as a man) for being unable to propagate. You might want to look up the (extreme) cases of George Sodini and Elliot Rodger.

So our ancestors were actually wiser than we give them credit for. Even prior to the invention of the smartphone and the realization of the pointlessness of dating and Disney-induced concepts such as “the one” and “true love”, our ancestors knew what worked. Arranged marriages! They were as likely (perhaps more) to succeed as the present dating and marriage system where over half of all marriages end in failure and a good portion more are unhappily married (the remainder can’t all be happy, can they?). Arranged marriages capitalized on the female brain’s propensity to trust those around her to help her decide and also implicitly assume some responsibility in helping that union work out. Unfortunately, not only women but also parents, relatives and friends have gotten lazy or just do not care as much as they used to.

We have apps and even matchmaking services which men are probably more likely to be patrons of today than women are. So a lot of women, either without any guidance or simply because they have been brainwashed by feminism that they do not need such guidance (and can decide on their own), have come to have standards that the vast majority of men cannot meet or just do not care to couple anymore as life is quite sweet for them as it is. Many men, however, have their proverbial dicks in their hands (and perhaps a gun in the other), unable to appease their DNA which will do everything it can (and it can do a lot) to screw with the man’s mind because it does not want to die with its host body. So ladies, we have a problem and it’s really starting to show in society. When a man has done everything he possibly can within his means, and is still refused the right to reproduce, do not expect him not to be… displeased.