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[–]mgtowguynow 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Inner peace.

[–]Migtaosammich 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Simple. I do whatever I want. All the time.

And when interacting with women, I speak with, and listen to, the hamster, and the hamster alone.

[–]mediumwaffle 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I like reading stories and articles posted here. Keeps reminding me it's not worth it to engage with women anymore.

Occasionally I get an urge to go pursue a few particular women but then after reading stories here it reminds me how bad it can get and how badly I've already been burned in the past. All those "maybe she's not like that, maybe she's actually kind" thoughts disappear real quick...

[–]day01x 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Honest answer: I no longer feel as much pressure to please everyone around me. I realise that the actions and emotions of others are largely beyond my control, and I'm more capable of recognising and acting my own needs.

I now try to be decent to everyone without expecting anything in return. I've learned to read people by their actions, and to try to understand who they are on a deeper level rather than just how they present themselves.

I'm a lot more compassionate toward men than I used to be, because I understand the pressure to look 'together' all the time. I'm only competitive in very specific settings where there's mutual respect and a shared goal to improve.

In short, I'm behaving how I want to, rather than to meet any arbitrary expectation. I am becoming my own person.