Don't ever get married.

If you have been on this sub long enough, you know too well the common end results of marriage for men. Divorce rape, anguish, pain, violation of trust, etc. Sometimes this even results in the man committing harm to others, or to himself. Just don't do it. Quite simply, a good majority of marriages end up with the man in a horrible position, having to work very hard, sometimes at an advanced age, to put his life back together. We see this everyday here. Why put yourself at risk?

Really, the only way you should even slightly consider marriage in today's society is if she earns more than you, and has more assets. But we know how rare this is (women are leeches and very rarely marry someone who is a lesser provider). And even in this scenario, you never know if the courts will do the right thing. You are putting your current and future resources in the hands of a likely horribly biased judge to distribute as he pleases.

I could talk about how most women these days are completely unfit for a LTR, let alone marriage. We know how unfair the average man has it (compared to the average woman) in today's dating scene. If you can't get consistent sex with a woman who you consider to be attractive, seeking marriage is definitely not the answer. From this prospective, masturbation and soliciting prostitution are much better solutions to sexual frustration.

I am still relatively young (24), and I'm so glad that I found this place before I potentially made a huge mistake. I have a good job with great prospects for advancement. I am able to save a good amount of money every month, and save for my retirement as well. I live well within my means, and I look forward to reaping the benefits of this lifestyle once I have accumulated enough resources. If there is any advice here that you should deeply internalize and make your own, I recommend this be it:

DON'T EVER GET MARRIED.