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Virgin MGTOW (self.MGTOW)

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So as the title states I am a virgin MGTOW but am unsure on what to do moving forward. Should I decide to lose my virginity, there is the risk of pregnancy, std, rape claims, and me falling in love. Also I don't believe in sex before marriage, but I feel like a loser because I'm a virgin. I just want to know for myself if I am capable of getting a woman if I tried to but at the same time I know I shouldn't place so much value on female validation. Should I really abandon my personal morality just to get sex? And if not when am I ever going to have sex? I can't just die as a virgin but marriage isn't an option.

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[–]Whiskeybandit67 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Drop the Virgin label. You are MGTOW.

[–]tribalbandit 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

No one here is the way, nor has your answers. All we have are our stories to share and you to weigh what if anything they mean to you.

You got to do you brother. The only advice I can give is weigh everything out carefully with your mind. Push aside what your body is trying to convince you of. Do not make any hasty decisions based on the chemicals rushing through you. The one common thing many of us have that have gotten taken to the cleaners is we allowed those chemicals to talk us into doing shit that came with costs that were way to high.

I also will advise you to not become that which you despise in whatever path you choose to take regarding whether you pursue sex or not. We are our own toughest critic and the one judge we can never escape.

[–]801735 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I just want to know for myself if I am capable of getting a woman if I tried to but at the same time I know I shouldn't place so much value on female validation.

Excellent viewpoint, imo.

May I suggest:

  1. go to a shop, buy a pack of condoms. Put them into your jacket, wallet, pockets, car, bike, distribute them all over things you wear/use.

(1a) Double check you did numero uno.

  1. Then, and ONLY THEN, go out, try to get out of your head for a few seconds, have fun, have a beer or four. Talk to people, approach, be weird and fail. Failure is often the prerequisite for learning by doing. You'll improve and the rest will take care of itself. If/When you get an opportunity you're ok with, don't deny it. You'll be nervous as fuck, it's natural. By opportunity I mean what YOU perceive as an opportunity. You'll know what is right and what is wrong (prolly). Use the condoms you got in point 1 and checked you have on you in point 1a.

  2. Don't overhamster stuff, really try to get out of your head and just have fun for yourself. Don't try to impress, you won't. Imo a good way to go about it is emptying your fuckstogive satchel. It will take time, you'll fail, it's ok. The process should take time because of you. If it were up to chicks, you'd be getting maburried asap. DO NOT. Don't fuck unless you feel like it, trust your instinct. If you don't hear your instinct, then train it a little by exposing yourself consciously knowing you WON'T be going out to get laid but to just have fun and talk to people. Lie, mislead, be ambiguous to them and observe them, see how it goes, if that helps.

  3. The rest should take care of itself. You can do it, you were born with it.

Also, you already know not to get maburried. Also don't be a phag and take advantage of incapacitated chicks - it's problems down the road, for you, her and others.

If everything else fails, consider pros.

*edit: failed at formatting, meh