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[–]envirex 6 ポイント7 ポイント  (52子コメント)

Oh good another neckbeard that thinks nice guys finish last because he doesn't know how to talk to girls.

[–]gufestus1[S] -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (50子コメント)

No. I do know how to talk to girls. Problem is girls just hate uggos.

[–]envirex 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (35子コメント)

I've seen plenty of hot girls with uggly chubby guys. The problem is either that you're going after douchebag girls or you don't know how to talk to them. One of the two.

[–]Soft--Machine 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

It's 100% that they've never even talked to an "uggo" woman because they feel that they deserve better or something.

[–]gufestus1[S] -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (32子コメント)

I've seen lots of stuff. Doesn't change the fact that girls hate ugly guys. Just on this very site I asked what it would take for a girl to date an ugly guy? Almost all responses were "Nothing. I won't if you're ugly."

[–]WholeNewAnimal 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (26子コメント)

Someone's bitter... 😁

[–]ameoba 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (25子コメント)

Seriously - just look at the submission history. Fucking obsessed with this shit.

[–]gufestus1[S] 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (19子コメント)

Feeling superior yet?

[–]ameoba 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (18子コメント)

I suggest getting off the internet and talking to a professional. Hanging out on reddit's just going to end up with you getting angrier and more bitter. You're going to find some hivemind like /r/incels and find a bunch of similarly angry young men and jerk yourself into a froth about how you're not responsible for your situation and never actually move beyond it.

You're kind of unhinged right now. It wouldn't take much to drag you into a cult if I saw you walking down the street.

[–]gufestus1[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (17子コメント)

A therapist can't help me with my face. Besides therapy itself is a pseudo-science. Any compassionate human being can do a therapist's job easily. Problem is, nobody wants to waste their compassion on an ugly.

[–]ameoba 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (4子コメント)

I've got a friend that's missing half his face from childhood cancer. He can't even speak straight because of it. He's got a good job, lots of friends and a cute girlfriend. Why? Because he hasn't decided to be a bitter little shit about the hand that life dealt him.

[–]Soft--Machine -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (11子コメント)

No but having a decent personality will mean decent people look past your face.

Yes any compassionate human being can do that job, but they wont get paid for it. No one wants to waste their compassion on someone who is probably going to take it for granted you mean.

[–]WholeNewAnimal 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (4子コメント)

I'll take your word for it. It's not surprising though.

Also, I think he downvoted me. OH NOES! 😂😂

[–]gufestus1[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (3子コメント)

Yay bullying. I've never had to deal with that before in my life. :3

[–]WholeNewAnimal 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (2子コメント)

You really think you're the only person that gets bullied? You think that it's only the domain of people who aren't pretty?

Dude, get over yourself. In my journey through life I've learned that it's got a lot less to do with looks amd a LOT more to do with the person. So, if you're ugly and bitter on the inside too, then you're going to get nowhere. Period.

Basically it's up to you how you live your life, but if you insist on blaming everyone else for how you're treated, then you're only ever going to be treated badly. Learn to grow as a person and you might atart to get it. Until then though, expect to live like this.

[–]gufestus1[S] 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Again it's easy for people like you to say that shit because you never had to deal with it yourself. You just assume that since your life is easy, everyone else's must be too. You're like the rich guy who when talking about poverty say stuff like "Why don't you just get a job and earn some money." No. It's not that easy. Maybe for you it is because you were blessed with the required features. I wasn't. So quit with your "advice" because it's degrading.

[–]envirex 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (4子コメント)

Your first mistake was asking a public question and thinking you'd get honest responses. The second mistake was getting disheartened by those responses. Seriously if this is all it takes to get you down then it's no wonder you're single. Seems to me that you're only going after a select group of girls and getting pissed off that these same girls (who probably work on how they look everyday) won't date a guy who not only has no confidence in himself (an unattractive trait) but also doesn't work on making himself desirable. Also what reference did you give them to make their judgement from? Link me to it if you can.

[–]gufestus1[S] 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (3子コメント)

So I should not expect honest opinions when asking questions? And no I wasn't disheartened by their responses. I was disheartened because their responses were exactly what I came to expect after all this time. That ugly people suck and can do no good and are forever going to be losers.

[–]envirex 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

You shouldn't ask questions on the internet to a bunch of unidentifiable strangers who may or may not be trolls. And again you're making a very vague assumption, did you even show a picture of yourself? or did you just ask if they would date an ugly person? I know I wouldn't date someone I found ugly and you wouldn't date someone you found ugly in fact no one would or should be expected to date someone they find ugly because ugly is simply what we view as an undesirable trait. However we all view different things as ugly for example me and my old roommate had practically opposite tastes in women, I like short petite girls and he likes tall fat girls but we each saw the others girlfriend as ugly because they didn't fit our personal tastes. My ex girlfriend and another friend of mine are very similar girls but my ex found skinny guys attractive and muscular guys gross and ugly and my friend preferred the opposite. If you ask a bunch of people if they would date an ugly person then they all picture their personal idea of ugly and will of course say no. But if you were to go to r/Rateme and post a picture of yourself and ask if people found you attractive then you'll get different answers. You can't just say "ugly people" because it's a vague statement, we're all ugly to someone but we're also someone elses idea of beauty.

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    [–]gufestus1[S] 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    Please teach me what you know.

    [–]Heavy_Weapons_Guy_ -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    Well, no. You're essentially saying "hot girls who aren't douchebags will totally date anybody." That's obviously wrong. Of course hot people will generally date other hot people, that's not where OP went wrong. Where he went wrong was thinking that this was somehow "unfair" as if were he to become super-hot all of a sudden he'd totally go out of his way to only date ugly girls.

    [–]Jdl5269 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    Whip out your dick. You'll be fine

    [–]StopDrinkingMyBeer -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (10子コメント)

    Ugly people get with ugly people. Hot people get with hot people. Average people get with average people.

    The fact that, by your own description, you can't even attract a fellow ugly person (if indeed you are ugly) indicates that it's not your looks that is inhibiting you, but something else (either your personality or approach). If you come off as insecure, desperate, and pessimistic as you are here, it's no wonder they are not interested. Women don't look for men with shit attitudes.

    [–]gufestus1[S] -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (9子コメント)

    Or maybe, girls hate ugly guys no matter what.

    [–]StopDrinkingMyBeer 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (8子コメント)

    No, they hate guys that clearly hate women and have bad attitudes. Ugly people are everywhere. Attractive people (at the far end of the scale) are in the minority. This world is overpopulated as it is. Do the maths. Lots of sex/relationships are happening and it's not just the models of the world that are producing. That's ridiculous. Earth to gufestus1. I genuinely can't believe there is someone out there genuinely asserting that only the attractive people get laid. Holy fucking hell, that is beyond any stupidity I have ever encountered.

    Fix your bad attitude, improve yourself (for yourself, not because you think it will get you some) and your confidence, stop overanalysing everything and demonising women and you'll find that your life improves. As harsh as I or others may be being with you, it's because guys like you are literally bringing about your own misery. Everyone on this thread wants to shake you and get you to wake up so that you can start having a normal life like everyone else . You won't have that all the time you're acting the way you're acting. You're unattractive and unappealing for this reason. No woman wants a guy like that. Would you like a female version of the attitude you have? I doubt it. And nor should you want that.

    Most people just want someone who is emotionally healthy and happy in themselves and their lives. You're neither. Work on that. It's the most basic - but critical - thing of all.

    [–]gufestus1[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (7子コメント)

    You seem to be confusing ugly with average. Average people are everywhere. People as ugly as me are definitely a minority. And the fact is no girl wants to deal with ugly guys.

    As for fixing myself, dude you don't know me. I have a highly fulfilling life. I have a job and am gonna graduate this year. I'm totally in control of everything in my life that I can control. But girls don't see that. They see my face. And they don't bother. How can I be happy with myself when everyone around me walk around just making me feel miserable?

    [–]StopDrinkingMyBeer 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (6子コメント)

    There are ugly women just as there are ugly guys. The fact that you admit that you can't get with an ugly person either indicates, like I said before, that it isn't your looks and is instead your approach/personality. Your plight isn't the plight of other ugly people. There are plenty of ugly but happy/successful people out there. Ugly people aren't going extinct, for crying out loud.

    And no, they see you're miserable. No one wants Miserable.

    [–]gufestus1[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (5子コメント)

    Yes. There are ugly women. But even those ugly women prefer to date a good looking guy than someone who's ugly. It has nothing to do with personality when you can't even get them to fucking look at you. Your "personality" means jack shit when people say ew just looking at you. How can you show your "personality" when people don't even wait for you to open your mouth before they turn their face away.

    [–]StopDrinkingMyBeer 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (4子コメント)

    I highly doubt anyone has ever voiced the fact that they think you are ugly, and certainly not the women you are propositioning. Unless they have outright told you they don't fancy you because they are not attracted to you (which is odd, given most people would rather not get pulled into "justifying" why they don't want you), then you frankly don't know what it is they don't fancy about you. If you present as someone that is lacking in confidence and bitter for it, and also as someone that would rub himself against any woman that would let him, of course they're not going to be interested.

    I don't know what about this you find so difficult. Would YOU want an ugly, insecure woman who hates men? So why should women want an ugly, insecure man that hates women? Or is she not allowed to have the same standards that you have? Have you seriously never turned down a single woman before?

    [–]gufestus1[S] 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (3子コメント)

    Lol. You guys are so far gone in your normalcy that you can't even comprehend anything I say. I'd date any girl who's interested because I've realised that I'm actually a beggar and not a chooser. And lol at the thought of turning a woman down. Holy fuck. I don't even have words for it. I'll tell you this. The day that a girl comes up to me and says she likes me will instantly become the best day of my life. Like no question. It just shows how different your perspective is from mine. You can't even comprehend that I've never turned down a girl.

    [–]Tomteseal -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (1子コメント)

    You'd look so much better without that fedora and neckbeard, mate! ;)

    [–]gufestus1[S] 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    I don't wear fedoras. And I'm clean shaven. But good job on being an ass.

    [–]Special_Fox 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (5子コメント)

    This was obviously the creation of a man who believes women don't have mean things said to them ever. It happens to everyone.

    [–]Hal_Incandenza_ 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

    You are rightfully asking to be treated as an individual; to not be generalized; for assumptions not to be made based on your appearance.

    And yet you do not see women as individuals; you make sweeping generalizations about them; you draw assumptions about them based on their appearance.

    You are more than your appearance - as is everyone. Everyone suffers: you suffer: I suffer.

    Only the foolish judge others by appearance alone. Think of all that is missed when you only see the surface of people. Never assume malice when stupidity will suffice: it is likely that these people who have mistreated you are merely mistaken, and have made foolish assumptions... as you do now.

    And remember: just because they're doing it wrong doesn't mean you don't have to do it right.

    I've loved men of every size, shape, and shade of the spectrum. When you grow, you will see that many people do the same (with whichever gender or expression of humanity they choose).

    Women are people, not a uniform mass. So take a deep breath and give it some time, some humanity, and some empathy.

    [–]Indian2000 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    Only the foolish judge others by appearance alone.

    Unfortunately that's what the majority of the population does

    [–]Special_Fox 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

    This guy needs to be put on a school shooter watch list.

    [–]gufestus1[S] 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    Why not have me killed as a preventive measure? I'd prefer that.

    [–]chitterbugger 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    Wtf is /fa/ ?

    [–]1911_ 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    Post pics and show us how ugly you are. We're all looking forward to it.

    [–]MetroidsGun 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    Lol I managed to find someone amazing, we're both fat and lazy and beautiful. It really sucks that being ugly is the only thing holding you back but I never let my scraggly neckbeard, preggo stomach, and missing teeth hold me back from being hawt. I bet if you delete the gym, hit your lawyer, and facebook up everything will turn around in no time!

    [–]anonymouscarl69 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    did you mean to post this in r/cringeanarchy ?

    [–]mtrund 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    You are a whiner. Turn yourself into a winner by having some self respect and confidence. Hit the gym and quit bitching.

    [–]TeddyRugby 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    You've become so accustomed to bullying over the years, you now bully yourself. You really should try not to do that. It also seems you have "identified" your sole issue with women which is your ugliness. You say you have no issue talking with women, and you are intelligent and i'm just going to assume you are caring, thoughtful, trustworthy, compassionate and smell nice just to list a few other high quality traits in humans seeking other humans. Oh yeah, you have a fair amount of money, at least not poor. As a man or a woman that can play as a strong role. You are always better off seeking someone in your tax bracket.

    But your only problem is you are ugly and you are willing to be with absolutely any woman.

    So I'm curious what are you looking for from this woman. Does she just need to say nice things to you? Are you trying to be physical with her? How do you envision things going in a best case scenario?

    Again, I really think you should stop bullying yourself the way people have done to you for so long and don't expect anyone to pat you on the back and tell you everything is okay after you put yourself down so much. Many people avoid self-deprecating people whether they are right or wrong about their observation.

    So if you are as ugly as you say you are, shut up about it and maybe you will be able to surround yourself with nicer people who can notice you great conversation skills and the other great qualities you have! At minimum you will get the validation of someone paying you a compliment on the other great qualities you know you have. At best you will realize how wrong you are about being ugly

    [–]AlMcFly 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (2子コメント)

    Dude. The world is utilitarian. Don't be a crybaby about it. Women, just like men, look for value in partners. They see value in different things. Some women look for physical attractiveness. Some look for money and wealth. Some look for good parenting skills. Some look for humor. Some look for politeness. Some look for strength of character. Some look for strength of personality.

    If you have nothing of value to offer the opposite sex, then you either learn to make yourself valuable, or get shoved out of the genepool. The human species does not need weak and valueless traits in its gene pool.

    [–]gufestus1[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

    Yeah. We don't need poor people either. Neither stupid people or people with disabilities. Let's just commit a mass genocide on anyone who doesn't fit the mold of an ideal human. :3

    [–]AlMcFly 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    From a pure Darwinian "survival of the fittest" standpoint, yes, lets purge all of them. The problem is that the human race developed a vague, constantly changing code of ethics that prevents this.

    But seriously, given all we've read in your statements in this thread, do you really think anyone would quote "ethics" to save you personally from being purged? People with your mindset are seen by most others as a sickness. Lots of people don't like physical unattractiveness, and there is nothing you can do to change that. EVERYONE dislikes personality unattractiveness, and you 100% have the power to change that. The question is, are you going to?

    Also, you're in violation of the slippery slop fallacy. L2Argue.

    [–]Jdl5269 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    Science says so

    [–]Suerte13cr 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    please grow a backbone

    [–]pm_me_your_kindwords 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    I'm sorry you've been hurt.

    Try to remember that lots of people eventually find someone they click with. But sometimes it takes a while.

    [–]turd_miner91 -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (17子コメント)

    Don't be a "nice guy".

    [–]Popaund -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

    Damn chads and their beautiful selves !