This is one of (in my opinion) the problem with TRP and basically any kind of meninism/feminism kinds of subs: there's too much generalization and overall treating the opposite sexes as if they're less than human. It's just not true. All women are just people, despite differences in their chemical makeup and evolutionary instincts. There are intelligent, beautiful women with great personalities out there just as there's a shit ton of dull, average intelligence, ugly women out there. It's the exact same with men. Absolutely all of us know plenty of dbags in the world just as we all know good people too. That's how the world is. Women are the same in this regard. Both men and women tend to stick near the bell curve as far as all the positive traits go. If the average is 5 out of 10 for looks/personality/intelligence, then that's what the majority of all women will be around. The same thing goes for men too, the only difference is women care about money (if a man has enough) over personality and looks. Very few men in the world give a shit how much money a woman makes. Regardless, that's just their need for security that's ingrained in their brains due to evolution. Good looks will overcome not being wealthy just as being wealthy will overcome being ugly as fuck. Personality is kind of the icing on the already baked cake.

Here's the thing though: stop settling for women that don't meet both your looks AND personality criteria. That's your issue here. It takes way more time and pickiness to find a good girl that you enjoy being around. There's maybe one out of a hundred that also has the looks to go with it. If you aren't picky as far as looks go, find a girl that's not a 10, but still attractive to you. It's true that generally the more average-looking the women, the more interesting her personality becomes. The same goes for men. The funniest people in the world weren't fucking alpha male studs. They were usually ugly or short or fat or some combo of those. Chris Farley, Chris Rock, Richard Prior, Louis C K, Dave Chappelle, etc to make a few... All these guys look pretty damn goofy. Even the best looking comedian I can think of (Dane Cook?) is pretty fucking goofy in his own way. The same goes for women. I don't find these women funny, but think of all the female comedians out there: Amy Shumer (fat, ugly), Roseanne Barr (fat, ugly), etc etc and realize that there's truth here. It's probably evolution at work, but a beta male or female, to set themselves apart and/or make themselves more attractive naturally need to work on their personality. It helps to even the gap between their physical looks and potentially hotter girls. The hottest ones tend to also either be the dumbest or at least the shallowest, most boring people on earth. They didn't naturally have to work on their personality to get attention, so they never do. There's always exceptions to this, but that's generally how it goes. The same goes for men. The betas that don't do this end up becoming neckbeards and SJW who women use and abuse. If the neckbeard gets fed up finally, maybe he comes to this sub to learn the truth. Otherwise, they become radical liberal feminists who never get any woman on earth to find them sexually attractive, and that must be an extremely depressing life choice. Little do they seem to know that it is a choice. Anyone can do things to upgrade themselves, even the best of us.

Anyway, the thing is to find a balance somehow. There aren't many unicorns in the world. You won't find many perfect 10 girls in both looks and personality, but you will find a lot of 8 and 2s or 2 and 8s. Look for the above average women with above average personalities. A 7 and 7 means you struck gold. Those are the ones that are for more than just fucking in a one night stand.

Side note: I've very rarely had 'just' a one night stand. Most women, if they'll fuck you once, will want to do it at least a few more times. If she's good in bed, you'll probably want to too.

Back on topic: Just recognize the difference. There ARE good women out there, but they're just not the majority. That's why you need to sift through them all and not waste your time on the bad ones. There's too many fish in the sea to settle at all, and I'd recommend not settling for a perfect 10 looks girl with a 1 personality anymore than anyone settles for a 1 looks girl with a 10 personality. Find a balance of both, even if she isn't a 10 in every category. There's nothing wrong with dating a 7 with a 10 personality over a 10 with a 2 personality. If you've slept with enough women, you'll know that pussy tends to be pussy regardless. If you're attracted to the girl, that's good enough. If her personality is also good, then don't ghost her and go for it.