Lick her pussy. Become a master
You have to love licking pussy to be really good at it. Without that - you may not ever be truly good at it. You might begin to love it when you are able to give a woman an orgasm and she praises you for it. It is truly a way to feel powerful. Women who love giving blowjobs love it because they feel in power. Cunnilingus is the same.
- Know that your tongue is the most powerful muscle in the body. Powerful in that a woman will flood with feelings of love and ecstasy when you make her cum so well.
- Make sure your face is shaved. Rubbing sandpaper on her inner thighs and her labia is uncomfortable for her.
- There are 2 ways to prepare your tongue. Hard tongue and soft tongue. Just like french kissing chicks like soft tongue most of the time. There is a time for hard tongue - the beginning of cunnilingus is not the time.
The beginning
From bottom to top with a soft wet tongue, stroke her all the way up and kiss her clit gently. It lets her know that you know where her clit it. Then go back down and lick inside her labia (she loves it). Think of it as a massage with your tongue. A good massage therapist doesn't start digging into your sore muscles with their thumbs, they gently spread the oil around the muscles and go over your entire body. Do this with your tongue on her pussy, every once in a while lick her clit and kiss it. This whole process should be about 2 minutes.
Focusing on her clit
I usually try to gently pull her skin up from around her clit to expose it and very gently kiss her clit. The gentler the better. Make sure your tongue is wet so it glides over easily. There is theory that one side of a woman's clit is more sensitive than the other side. Once in a while, I'll focus on one side and gauge her reaction. Does she moan a little more? If so, spend 15-30 seconds on that part.
I have 3 techniques that I use and switch back and forth after 30 seconds or a minute each.
Gently swipe your tongue from side to side. Very lightly with a decent amount of saliva. You'll feel her clit swell up and get harder. She'll start moaning. You want to mirror how she likely rubs her clit (side to side). She is used to this technique and she likes it because she is rubbing her own clit and making herself cum 4-10 times per week using this technique. The difference is it is a soft warm tongue and it is wet. You'll notice within 5 seconds that she'll respond well. Wrap your lips around her clit and just gently go side to side... sometimes barely touching her clit... a little teasing goes a long way.
With the same type of technique, you want to make circles around the outside of her clit. Using the front, sides and back of your tongue, just make small gentle circles. You'll hit all angles of her clit and this is something that she can't do when she masterbates. She'll love the new feeling. Get some more saliva on there and go from super gentle barely touching her (with a devious smile on your face cause it will drive her crazy) and then go to a little more aggressively. ALWAYS gauging her reactions. If you are doing something she really loves - keep it going for a little more time, but never keep at the same thing until you want her to cum. This is where the POWER comes in. You are controlling when she cums.
Gently sucking her clit and using either technique 1 or technique 2 at the same time. When you gently suck her clit, blood will fill it and it will become more sensitive. You want to be able to maximize her pleasure by doing this - this is also something she can't do by herself. She'll go crazy, arch her back and likely begin talking "in tongue" praying to the oral gods (you) and tell you all sorts of shit like "holy shit that feels so good, god damn I fucking love fucking you!" Shit like that.
Always remember, her pussy has more than just her clit. After working her clit for 5 minutes in the fashion mentioned above, you want to lower your tongue back down and scoop up her pussy juice and raise that juice up to her clit so it is her own pussy lubricating your tongue on her clit. She'll love that too. I would avoid darting your tongue in her clit until you become a master pussylicker. You can always lick and kiss and suck her labia. You can always mix it up with "painting the fence" technique. Painting the fence is, of course, is using your soft tongue to go up and down gently and slowly. When I say soft tongue, I also mean flat tongue. Flat and soft tongue up and down, up and down for 30 seconds and then go right back up to her clit.
Master Pussy Licker
A woman's clitoris isn't a little nub with a lot of nerve endings. It is a gland and it goes up past her pubic bone just a bit. What I do sometimes is I will take my thumb just above the clit right about where her slit will end (at the top)... you can take your thumb perpendicular and you can feel a little gland. Gently push down on this while you are gently sucking her clit and working your tongue either side-to-side or circles.
Pushing down on this gland will stimulate her to the core, it will push even more blood into her clit and with you licking her (a little bit harder now - if she likes it harder) just keep working this.
Making Her Cum
Pick one of the combinations of techniques (sometimes pushing down on her clit gland) and keep at it.. do not switch it up, just keep working it. Gently, Gently, Gently and a little bit more pressure as she gets closer to cumming. Either sucking and side-to-side, Sucking and small circles, just side-to-side, just circles, perhaps up and down (usually not though) and just keep working it. Just like when a chick sucks your dick you like her to do different things, but when you're going to cum, you want that same repetitive motion for the last minute. Same theory. Keep working it.
Humming at the End
When a woman is going to orgasm, her breathing will increase and her muscles will do the same as you before you cum. Immediately before she cums she'll arch her back hard. Just as she is telling you she's going to cum, her heart and breathing is racing and you can tell with her tensing up her toes, legs and butt, BEGIN To HUM in a deep constant humming pattern. Don't hum a song, just like you can imagine meditating monks in a deep trance - hum about 5 seconds before she is going to cum so you don't have to take another breath... deep low hum while she is cumming and arching her back.
The Best Orgasm Has The Best Ending
When she is at the middle or end of her orgasm, stop licking and sucking and just press your tongue down on her clit and keep your tongue there until she stops quivering... transition into a gentle cute kiss on her clit, make a clean break. Remind her how great that was. "Oooh, that was a good one." and just smile.
THAT IS HOW YOU LICK A PUSSY.
There's more, there is going for the G-spot, etc. But this is 80% of all pussy licking sessions and she'll love it.
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