I just cannot bring myself to enjoy/appreciate women

valdirtheblue · 15時間前

Most women, not all, but most are dull, uninteresting and nearly all of them will fill out their biography with the words 'glass of wine' and 'netflix' in the same sentence. Now that I'm single, I have so much more time for activities. Reading, cycling, lifting and guitar work. They dont have any opinions themselves, that's why they adopt their male counterparts values and attitudes. It's sad really, how many women have you met who have genuine hobbies? Or are masters at something? You can bet they picked it up from a guy somewhere. Not all women are like this though, the less physically appealing ones tend to have stronger character and more interests.

I know the feeling man, my ex was an 8/10, beautiful, but boring as fuck. Luckily she was right wing politically. Apart from that? It was all cocktails, instagram and the big city lifestyle. Either give up or find a quality bird with actual intelligence, hobbies and personality. But for gods sake, remember AWALT!

Good luck!

Docbear64 · 15時間前

It sounds like you're trying to appreciate a woman like she's a man . Maybe make more or better male friends ?

Serious discussions , challenging your opinions for their merit and not just a scarecrow , those sound like the kind of qualities I can personally say I have only enjoyed in other men .

If I want to feel lighter and / or happy positive women are good for that . If I want to go out and have fun most women are good for that. If I want ot have sex and enjoy a persons beauty again I would choose a woman .

Not saying I haven't met intellectually interesting women or fucking boring and thoughtless men but I know what I am looking for in a plate versus a friend and women then men respectively satisfy those needs.

Veritas_potissimum · 14時間前

The dissatisfaction is reality (TRP) clashing with your blue pill indocrination and upbringing which put this silly notions in your head about what women are like or what your life should look like. Consider yourself lucky, some men will not even get a chance at this woke dissatisfaction and a trapped in a permanent slumber.

blackedoutfast · 12時間前

women are mentally children. just accept that fact and start laughing at all the stupid silly things they do.

745gtes5 · 14時間前

Serious questions:

Do you actually want a woman in your life?

What do you want a woman in your life for?

Sounds like you're bored with stupid bitches. They are a dime a dozen and you see this. Good for you. Very understandable. You now know what you don't want. Now you need to figure out what you do want.

Keep ignoring the dumb shit and make room for the solid one that may come through. And in the meantime, just work on yourself. Wasting time with the sluts is stupid anyway.

destraht · 13時間前

get offended whenever you mention the differences in genders even if its a harmless comment,

This is largely a Western female thing. Its generally a pretty pointless thing to mention because if they have received the Western indoctrination then they can't see it and will be offended by it and if they are capable of realizing that men are different than women then its an irrelevant conversation.

jizzledfreq · 11時間前

The advice red pill gives should be taken with a grain of salt, with that being said, just meet a bunch of different women, I'm sure you're bound to find some that tickle your fancy.

My whole take on red pill is more so in how to recognize certain behaviors in women as it pertains to romantic/sexual relationships so that one can secure a more plentyful supply of sexual partners or to keep oneself from being played in a LTR situation. It's about bettering ones self to make oneself more attractive to the opposite sex, and more confidence in a variety of social settings.

I think there are a lot of men on this forum who completely misunderstand the red pill and think it's all about becoming some hypermasculine man with massive muscles, developing an obnoxious attitude, and that RP is to slay vagina left and right, or going so far as to completely reject women.

I guarantee that whatever interests and hobbies you have, there are women with those exact same interests and hobbies, and personalities that don't grind your gears. You don't have to have sex with every single woman you see, and you really shouldn't look down on them as some inferior being. Women are women, women are humans, and just like men, women have their own quirks. That's life.

ShakaLeonidas · 13時間前

Your just in the melancholy depression phase of digesting the pill. Blue pill conditioning has side effects. Its like someone whos religious coming to the conclusion their isnt a God( im not atheist). Its a meta level existential crisis finding out about the nature of females after you've been conditioned and groomed for decades to believe otherwise. Appreciate them for what they are. They serve a purpose just rember they are vessels to be filled, thats it. Past that point your asking for too much. Back in the day they manipulated men for survival so they had to be experts. Now its recreatiomal so they half ass at it and expect for you to fill in the blanks. They don't get more interesting. You get better and the ones you encounter either get prettier or looser.

Mangoinhand · 9時間前

Always aim for higher standards for yourself and everyone in your life.

Keep upgrading everything

RedPillersareCucks · 9時間前

Maybe I should go for women that are really challenging and as high quality as I can get instead of ones that take less time and dont hold themselves up to a high standard?

Yes. It sounds like you are miserable going after dumb sluts who fulfill your stereotypes about being inferior. That's not a universal female trait; like men, there's a large variety of women. There's tons of mouthbreathing idiot cavemen who couldn't hold a conversation to save their lives. They're dumb, boring, and completely uninteresting people.

Though fair warning if you are going to go after intelligent women who are challenging and hold themselves to high standards: If you view women as boring and stupid who will cheat at the drop of the hat, or let them know you think that, most of them will think of you the same way you currently think of women- like a knuckledragging misogynist. That'll leave you with only bottom of the barrel women who conform to your stereotypes.

lonewolf-chicago · 6時間前

Challenge yourself. Find something you appreciate about them and it might just be physical but challenge yourself

CuriousBeacon · 5時間前

There are loads of interesting, entertaining birds out there. You need to change your surroundings.

DeeDee1234567 · 5時間前

Ok, I'm like a half-pill red-piller; I appreciate this forum as a genuine way of finding order out of the chaos of the dating world, but I think you might be OD'ing on your red pill dude.

Here is where I think your problem is. You are trying to replicate your mother's unconditional love for you in women who ARE NOT YOUR MOM. Because no-one can ever reach your mom's love for you, you are bitter and close yourself off emotionally from women, who have a lot to offer.

How do I know? I'm the exact same fucking way dude.

I don't know if you watch the soprano's, but I think it should be required watching for every red piller. There is an amazing episode where after Tony Sopran has a Peyote Trip, he goes to Dr Melfi and talks about an epiphany he had. He says that your mother is like the bus driver on a bus, and you are the passenger. She takes you down the road and drops you off at a station. Instead of walking on into the wide world, you spend your entire life trying to get back on the bus. But that was never the point. The Bus was only there to drop you off where you are. It's genius and sums up a lot of male anxiety and bitterness about women.

Dude, in terms of technique on how to pick up chicks and maintaining relationships with women, this sub is the best. The users here are genuine dudes trying to help each other and I love you guys. You are the guy's I'd want to shoot the shit with and have a beer.

BUT, don't OD on red pill philosophy. You hate women, because THEY ARE HUMAN. what you hate about women is really just a scapegoat for the harshness and intrinsic unfairness of life. Women are capable, just as men, of being selfish, self-absorbed and superficial. Just like how men are equally capable of being Elon Musk or Adolf Hitler.

The beauty of a woman is in her subtelties. If you want to enjoy her in a pure red-pill framework, go out with her to a social event, and for 30 minutes, don't think about any games. Just sit back and enjoy where you are. Just think about what a socially superior dude you are BECAUSE YOU ARE WITH HER. Like when you drive down the road in a really nice car, and notice people admiring your car. There's one plus.

And these negatives that you speak of can be seen as positives. You say she just agrees with everything you say. Well, take a step back and ENJOY the fact that she has so much implicit trust in you, so much respect for you that she feels that your opinion is the only opinion WORTH HAVING. Do you see where I'm going with this.

I think what you and all red-pillers need to do is get all the red-pill game, and have it be so ingrained in your psyche that it becomes SECOND NATURE. By that I mean it is in your subconcious, so you are not spending every minute of the day thinking about it. Once you do this, you can start enjoying yourself a little more.

buzzmerchant · 4時間前

I'm in a similar boat. I find it hard to even hit on girls any more, because i know i don't really want them. It's like, why take the risk and make myself vulnerable for a prize i don't even want.

GAbiguy32 · 3時間前

Just embrace your inner queer. You obviously enjoy the company of men more than women, so quit lying to yourself. Give one of your bros a hand sometime. I can already tell you will like it more than you think you would.

NewtonianCooking · 15時間前

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