Recently (within the past few days) I've noticed a lot of comments and posts here where supposed mgtow are whining about how the world is unfair and people don't like them.

Like this guy in the comments section of the ‘Never be Vocal About Mgtow’ post:

“they will end up most likely end up in failing marriages or get cheated on. I thought the same thing in High School. I never did drugs, never drank, had a moral compass. The result: I am 42, unhealthy physically and mentally, and I am alone.  The people I thought myself so superior too are healthy, wealthy, have beautiful wives, beautiful children, beautiful homes. One friend of mine did get cheated on but they somehow worked it all out. Who was the fool?”

Or the guy who made the post about how he's going bald and women don't like him anymore. (too long to quote, but I'm sure you saw it).

These are just a couple examples, but they all have one thing in common. The person posting has all their self-worth tied up in what other people have or think.

In the first guy’s case, he apparently hasn't done anything worthwhile in his life and not only lusts after what everyone else seems to have, but is wallowing in self-pity because his life sucks. The fact of the matter is the only person you have to blame If your life has gone nowhere is yourself. It shows a remarkable lack of awareness to whine about how your life isn't awesome, when you haven't done anything to make it that way. He looks around at the paper thin veneer of happiness he sees in his neighbors and goes, “I want that.” The problem with paper thin veneer is that it's paper thin. Their lives may be just as shitty. It is, however, completely immaterial to your own life. You're responsible for how you're life turns out. If you've just sat back and let life happen to you, then you have no one to blame but yourself when you realize that you're dissatisfied with it. If you don't like your life, make it better if you can and if you can't then accept those things beyond your control… which leads me onto example number two.

This guy is going bald and is just now realizing that women are shallow and fickle creatures. He's complaining about how women no longer find him attractive. Here again we're running into the issue of external self-worth. This guy only think he's OK if women find him attractive… otherwise, his life is a shambles. Unless example one, baldness isn't something you can control. It is one of those things where you have to roll with the punches. There's a saying I trust. Change the things you can and accept the things you can't and be able to tell the difference. There's nothing you can do about losing your hair… it's just a fact of life (believe me, I know. My perpetually chilly noggin is a testament to my depth of understanding on this subject). The only thing you can do is accept that a full head of hair isn't an option and move on with your life. If you base your self-worth on what other people think, of course you're going to be miserable. However, the whole point of gyow is understanding that you are a world into yourself and that the only person you should be looking to for validation is yourself. If women don't like your shiny bowling ball, who gives a fuck.

You guys (you know who you are) need to take the lessons of mgtow to heart and really do some serious self reflection. How can you effectively function as a living being If you can't even master yourself? Stop looking to others to bolster your ego and make something of your life that YOU can be proud of.